(Closed) Knowing my just married husband

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

((BIG HUGS))  I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this.  Yes, this does sound as though he’s verbally abusing you.  And any kind of abuse is wrong, including verbal.  You never should be cursed at, no matter what his excuse or reason – it’s just disrespectful.

I think your idea to get counseling for yourself is a good one.  Would your husband be willing to go to counseling with you?

Post # 5
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  • Wedding: September 2012

@Issybell:   If he won’t go to speak to a counselor with you, then you should make an appointment and go by yourself.

It is wrong for him to treat you this way.  I’m so sorry you’re hurting.  Hopefully the counselor can help you.  Don’t keep this to yourself, get some help from someone before his behavior escalates. 

In the meantime, try to stay calm with him because you don’t want to trigger an episode of abuse.  Most of the time abuse tends to worsen, not get better.  With a person who is abusive pointing out their abuse does not work for anything except making them more angry.

I wish you all the best!!

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