- 8 years ago
- Wedding: March 2011
I could be thinking to much of my family and friends… but I expect some type of excitement when I talk about my wedding plans and stuff. No, I do not expect it to be like “OMG I LOVEEE IT!!” with everything I say I want to do or show them. Heck maybe I just want feedback period. I went with my sister (my MOH) a few months back to see the place that I want to have my wedding at.. I like my sister’s approval and thoughts because she’s the always prepared one of the family. She liked the place and said the prices weren’t that bad and that there were many places much more expensive than it. My mom told me then that she would pay for the wedding. She put some money in my account last month and told me I could book the place, but I wanted her to see it first before I did.. I guess I like reassurance. We went last night to see it and all I got was “I like it, it’s pretty” in a nonchalant type voice. No forgive me for wanting her to be happy/at least say SOMETHING about the place for her last child’s wedding. And I’m basically having this problem with everyone.. no one seems excited or even wants to talk details of my wedding. It is 182 days away, I have not booked the venue or done anything but get my dress because, yes it is my day and utimately its up to me, everyone is so wishywashy about everything. I don’t know if she got sticker shock so to speak when she kinda calculated how much it would be in her head. But I told her when I found the place online how much roughly it would be and she didn’t have a problem with it.
It’s honestly driving me crazy, no I don’t want her jumping up and down like a lunatic but I would like feedback or a response period. Now she says “I’ll think about it over the weekend and let you know around next week.”
Is anyone else having a lack of enthusiasm problem with their mothers/fiances?