(Closed) lackluster love life?

posted 4 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
470 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@misstreebee:  maybe 69 it? that’s what FI and I do majority of the time.  Not always one on top of the other. but in different ways. My FI LOVESSS oral, and since I can’t have sex everyday (tmi: i get too raw) he’s always suggesting it.

Maybe that way, you’d both be taken care of. I’m not sure if u all may be the same way, but I get off quicker if i know i’m getting him off too.

again, probably TMI lol

Post # 4
1728 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1998

Yeah, there’s some definite laziness going on. Is your fiance depressed? Very stressed with work? Have you noticed this laziness extending to other areas of his life (i.e., doesn’t get involved in his hobbies as much anymore)? That could explain some of the problem, along with low testosterone.


Post # 5
226 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I feel like I’m in your exact situation. Although, I’m certain for my FH it’s stress, but at some point i start to wonder sex has to be a good stress reliever right? Anywho, it’s always the same, Saturday or Sunday night, RARELY on a work night. And he always (not asks) more like hints at me giving him oral for foreplay. Much like the sex, it’s always on his terms. Well the best thing that has worked for me, is to not give it up when he wants it. I waited about 4-5 weeks with no sex what so ever. and he finally basically jumped my bones one night, took total control. As for the one way oral road, if he asks for oral before sex or whatever, I will purposly move into 69, so he kinda doesn’t have any other option, then sometimes evenutally I’ll stop, but he doesn’t.

Everytime I bring this up to friends or my sister, I feel like those MTV commercials       “It’s your sex life, take control!” Lol


Post # 6
742 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2018

we’re kinda the same too… we were long distance so we had to cram it in No Pun Intended LOL and now that we live together we dont so much. sometimes i mind and most of the time i dont…im so lazy haha

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