- 3 years ago
- Wedding: November 2016
We dated for a year. We were young and both busy. Just didn’t have the time and overall I just felt like it was more of a friendship.
He took it amicably when I suggested we break things and possibly remain friends.
However, he then proceeded to stalk and harass me for a year. Left me threatening messages saying he would abduct me, forcibly keep me in his house, rape me, forcibly impregnate me, physically hurt me,…and so forth. Screamed tons of derogatory terms. He would use multiple phones to call so blocking one didn’t matter. He had his friends call and do the same.
I had to change my number multiple times and ultimately threaten legal action as well as getting his family involved and warning them I would go forth with legal action before he finally stopped. I guess having his family know what he was up to did the trick.
So, yeah, dodged a bullet there but kind of not the greatest first experience for a first relationship.