(Closed) Ladies, I'm really disappointed… (closed)

posted 5 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
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3778 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@BoxerLady:  You took the words right out of my mouth. 

Post # 5
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4893 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

I saw one last night and haven’t seen more. Even so, it’s just so disappointing! Here we are, supposedly a group of adults, and there’s people being rude in a way that they can’t be called out for it. It’s childish. 

Actually, I know a lot of children, and even they wouldn’t stoop so low.

Post # 6
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1281 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@BoxerLady:  Your sentiment is beautiful, but I urge you….please do not feed into this…

Post # 7
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816 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@BoxerLady:  What?! I didn’t even know this existed… it’s too bad that a few bad apples have to cause problems for the many other bees looking to support each other.

Post # 8
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2390 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

You do realize that by pointing this out now everyone knows about it (whereas probably only a few did before).  So you are actually exacerbating the problem.

Post # 9
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3778 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@BoxerLady:  It makes me sad to know that at least one person, who happens to be one of my favorite posters, dare I say a friend, has left this site because of the cattiness. And I had another poster PM me about her wanting to leave.

 

Waiting, engaged, married, diamond, moissy, gemstone, white dress, blush dress, destination wedding, local wedding, vow renewal, encore, huge budget, small budget, DIY, purchase everything, brunch menu, plated dinner, we are all here to HELP each other. Differing opinions are expected, but I’ve always believed that you can express your difference in opinion while still respecting the fact that the other person’s opinion is still valid, regardless if you agree with it or not.

 

People jump on the etiquette bandwagon when it comes to gift registries, dollar dances, and showers but seem to forget that etiquette applies in daily life too.

Post # 11
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8424 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@BoxerLady:  Yikes I haven’t come across this yet…..hmmmm not nice that people are using it this way thou

Post # 13
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4893 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

@oneofthesethings:  There was another thread about it last night. So the OP isn’t really the one pointing it out.

Post # 14
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1109 posts
Bumble bee

@BoxerLady:  The sad thing is, I’ve been noticing this happening and have also noticed a few members who’ve happened to respond to the thread with an awkward comment and then there’s a really nasty tag Shortly after. It’s been the same person on a few theads in the last few days. So sick of it! 

Post # 15
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2390 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@s2bmrscook:  You’d have to be REALLY sensitive to think this site is catty.  If you can’t handle Weddingbee, perhaps the internet is not for you.  (the general you)

Post # 16
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2207 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

oh wow… i didn’t know this was happening, and it makes me really sad. ๐Ÿ™

apparently someone tagged this thread with “+1”, which is nice that they agree but also not helping the problem… LOL

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