(Closed) ladies who have had threesomes…tips? first one this weekend!

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Not into this AT ALL…but commenting to read the updates ….facinating and also erotic;)

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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

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Post # 199
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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@MrsFuzzyFace:  it’s not for everyone but it depends. *shrug* 

I think you are right on with having discussed limits/expectations BEFORE it gets hot and heavy. 

Just so you know, you can have him more than once, so ideally the first one you’ll be not doing a whole lot and just kind of testing the waters with safe things.

Second. Everyone can have different limits and you always go with whatever makes EVERYONE comfortable. Even if it’s skewed one way or the other or seems odd that one thing is ok but another is not. eg., one person may think intercourse is ok and kissing is not, another may think the other way around and just wants making out to happen, etc

it’s a good idea to even write out an exact scenario. Spontenaiety is for the experienced. 

Also some people expect to find some random person off the street and then expect that person to disappear forever. This is unrealistic, unless you are paying a reputable sex worker and a bad idea, because people you know are generally more trustworthy. I had a threesome with one of my good friends, (it was sort of a multiple time thing that evolved) and it turned out really well. We communicated well and we still look back on those times fondly. 

But you listen to Dan Savage- so if you paid attention you know what’s up 😉 

 

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Helper bee

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honeylove26:  hahahaha thank you for that update comment about seeing more penis. It made me laugh out loud on a crappy day! you rock and thanks for posting on something that most would never dare admit they want to do or post about if they have. Good on you girl! 

Post # 200
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: May 2017

Anyone still look at this thread? PM if you’ve done this before I have questions!! 

Post # 201
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Helper bee

I’m an old hippie that remembers the “free-love” movement during the 60’s & 70’s. Regardless of how cool everyone thought it was to “make love and not war” during the sexual revolution back then, the movement did not last. Why? Emotions (like jealousy) eventually killed the mood for multiple partners and it just didn’t work. I would carefully reconsider what you’re about to do if I were you.

Post # 202
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: May 2017

Anyone who is interested in the idea feel free to PM me also 

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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2016

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quantumleap48:  

You do realize the “event” happened over 4 yrs ago, right?

Guess you didn’t read the whole thread because it worked out fine for her….

Anyway, ty for resurrecting the thread because it was a great read!

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Helper bee

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tatersprout:  No, I hadn’t realized it was a four year old thread. And it was someone else that resurrected it. My advice remains the same for anyone who wants to consider this lifestyle. Glad you enjoyed the read.

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Newbee

kimberlyr22 :  You wrote, “We all know that most of our SO have had prior relationships, but I would think the majority of us didn’t see the relationship in person. I can’t imagine having that image in my head.”

Hubby and I are each other’s best friends and share everything, including details of our past loves and sexual experiences, especially the good ones.  It turns us on having those “images in our heads.”  And it has made us what we are today, we try to learn from what pleased us in the past, before we knew one another and we build on it.

Perhaps that what has also given us the confidence to occasionally have threesomes (both kinds) and couples’ swaps.

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Sugar bee

This is a very old thread. I’m closing it now.

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