Post # 1
How did you/your Fiance deal with your promise ring when it came down to the proposal? I’m planning on proposing to my partner at the end of the month, but we both wear rings we bought for our second anniversary last year, and I’m not sure what to do with hers. She knows the proposal is coming but doesn’t know where or how, and I want that part to remain a surprise. But it won’t be if I’m all like “Hey honey, why don’t you take that ring off this weekend?”
Post # 3
@hgwells: My SO & I both have promise rings too but I just assume when she gets down on 1 knee I’ll take it off & put it on my right hand so that she can put my ering on my finger. I don’t really mind moving it.
Post # 4
I had my promise ring on at the time of the proposal. When he popped the question and held out the Engagement Ring, I simply put my promise ring on my right hand. It wasn’t a big deal or awkward or anything! 🙂
Post # 5
I don’t have a promise ring, but when DH proposed I was wearing a ring on that finger. He simply took it off and put the engagement ring on.
Post # 6
I have a promise ring its a half eternity ring I pan on wearing it with my future engagement ring its quite dainty so it will look good stacked with a wedding ring.
I’d say let her decide at the time of proposing x
Post # 7
I had a promise ring. When FH proposed, I pulled it off my finger and let him put my engagement ring on. It wasn’t complicated or anything. I wore it on my right hand for a while, but it irritated my finger (weird, since it never irritated my other finger). Now it’s on my desk.
Post # 8
I have had my promise ring for about 6 years (we have been together for 9 1/2 years), but I have always worn it on my right hand. I never wanted to give the impression I was engaged/married when I clearly wasn’t.
I would suggest just taking it off and having her move it to her right hand.
Post # 9
I had a promise ring. My Fiance took it off my left hand and put it back on lolol. We didnt have a ring, but if we did he would have moved it to the right hand 🙂
Post # 10
I wore my promise ring all the time and since I didn’t know the proposal was coming, i was wearing it when Fiance proposed. I just took the promise ring off and wore that on my right hand and the new engagement ring on my left. The promise ring is a little snug on my right hand so at some point I’ll get it resized and continue to wear it.