(Closed) Ladies…..I am having a rough day.

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1013 posts
Bumble bee

I feel your pain. 🙁 

Just take it day by day and be honest.  Set your own timeline and your own goals.  

It sucks big time but i always feel a little better when i am honest about my feelings with my SO.  I’m sure he knows marriage is always on my mind.  I’m at the point where whenever someone brings up anything about us getting married a change the subject. it just annoys me.  All talk and no action isnt something i need to discuss. 

We all have bad days so you’re not alone. 

Post # 4
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124 posts
Blushing bee

I agree with Rush1986, take it day by day. If you have any nice woods or parks by you you could go for a peaceful walk. That’s what I do on my down days because I get really introverted when I have a lot on my mind and so SO doesn’t notice I’ll go on a nice peaceful walk just me myself and I. Its a great way to get some exerscise and work through all the thoughts in your head. I always end feeling better and more clear headed. Just a suggestion, hope you feel more in spirits soon!! 😀

Post # 5
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597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@itsmecandie:  🙁 

I wish I had words of comfort but its just soo unnerving for a guy to propose he’s overthinking and freaking himself out, he wants it to be perfect for you so you need to try to be as patient as possible. Lordy I would hate to be in your shoes, the waiting is hard enough when I know he doesn’t have a ring! 

Post # 6
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699 posts
Busy bee

@itsmecandie:  This one is tough, but men are nervous as well, he’s got to get it right right? This is a HUGE step for him. He’s prob planning something big!! =)

Post # 7
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130 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Maybe he is trying to pay off the ring BEFORE he gives it to you?  Ugh waiting seriously sucks some days, doesn’t it??  I agree with doing something to take your mind off of it.  Go for a walk or pop in a chick flick.  

Post # 8
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477 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2015 - Backyard

He probably wants the proposal to be special, I mean would you rather he had given it to you immediately upon buying it, like “here you go”? Since he knows you know he got it, he’s probably waiting for you to “forget” about it so he can surprise you. Unfortunately, men don’t understand that we will never forget about it until it’s in our hot little hands. hehehe. But that’s the way they think. He obviously wants to marry you if he bought the ring and was so excited about it. Try not to bring it up so he can have his moment. Easier said than done I know! 🙂

Post # 12
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524 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I definitely don’t know what to say exactly advice-wise: all guys are different and I’m sure he’s waiting for something specific, though I have no idea WHAT. But just know we’re all here for you on those hard waiting days: and that we all have them!!

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