(Closed) Lap dances at weddings?

posted 8 years ago in Reception
  • poll: Would you be upset if your husband gave you a lapdance at your wedding?
    Yes! That's tacky/gross/inappropriate : (171 votes)
    91 %
    No, I'd think it was hilarious! : (11 votes)
    6 %
    I wouldn't care either way : (6 votes)
    3 %
    Other : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    1016 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    I would knock him back onto his backside and walk away.  Of course in a million-gazillion-bazillion years my husband would never ever do anything like that so it’s more far fetched than anything.  But I wouldn’t tolerate behavior like that from him or anyone else at my wedding.  And if it happened at a wedding where I was a guest, I would walk away. 

    I rarely use this word but the only word that comes to mind: Tacky.

    Post # 4
    6394 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    That reminds me of the episode of “Four Weddings” where the groom was a former Chippendale dancer!

    I really feel that some things are best left for the bedroom, though, even if your groom has some skills, lol. 🙂

    Post # 5
    10851 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Blah! I’ve never heard of that! I don’t think I would be very excited to see that as a guest, and if Darling Husband had done that to me at our wedding……. ooooh boy……

    Post # 6
    435 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I would be flat out pissed !!!! But lucky for me, he would never do anything like that !!

    Post # 7
    129 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012


    Post # 9
    504 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I’d be so angry that the reception would be over at that point. Period.

    Post # 10
    1893 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    That’s beyond trashy.  Honestly, what’s wrong with people?

    Post # 11
    5118 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I saw that on Four Weddings as well. If I were a guest I would have been taking a very long stroll…to my car! No thank you. In the hotel room later to be silly and goofy so I can have a good laugh before bed, ok (like Fiance could actually give a ‘serious’ lapdance, lol), but in front of Grandma and the pastor?! Ahk!

    Post # 12
    11325 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    @jo.lee: lol me too! i wonder if her friend was at that wedding?

    Post # 13
    15963 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    Absolutely no way.

    Post # 14
    652 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    @jo.lee:  Haha, I was just gonna ask the OP if her friend attended the wedding from that show!  I had to change the channel when I saw that, it was sooo awkward. 

    Post # 16
    1537 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Haha well maybe my man is bit more of goofball than yours ladies because I can see him doing this! It wouldn’t be in a sexual way, but more of funny way. He often thinks it’s hilarious to gride up on me or mockingly act sexual, so it wouldn’t surpirse me if he tried to do it at the wedding. I highly doubt he would try to preform an actual lapdance though… lol. Yikes!

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