(Closed) Last minute BM emergency! HELP.

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
4505 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I wouldn’t ask her. I don’t think there’s a way to do it that won’t make her feel like a back-up plan. Sorry. 

I would just proceed exactly as planned, but with one less bridesmaid.

Post # 3
953 posts
Busy bee

I’d probably put a picture of Brides maids and a bride with one bridesmaid missing and quote…something like “something is missing…could it be you?” Or something..Heck I dunno that may be tacky. 

Post # 6
47209 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

niawa41:  I would pick up the phone, call her and tell her how excited you will be if she will agree to step up to be a bridesmaid. Don’t text or email. the least you can do is speak to her in person. Personal contact will outweigh the cuteness factor.

I also suggest that you pick up the cost of the alterations, as she will be doing you the favor and has had no opportunity to save up for this expense.

Post # 8
215 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Why don’t you mail her the dress wih a nice card? It’s always nice getting packages and cards in the mail! I would not have her continue with the other duties as this is probably too much, can you have another cousin or aunt fill in?

Post # 10
47 posts

Happy for the update! Good thimg you have good people around you to fall back on

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