(Closed) Last option

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@Packers12:  I’m so glad you’re getting the help you need. I hope your path to healing takes you to a very happy place.

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Packers12:  sorry for your pain, I have found that positive thoughts, gratitude and working on love have helped me deal with difficult emotions.  Be careful with medication, I have found it harms more than helps.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

@Packers12:  Don’t be nervous! Therapy can be really, really good after any kind of emotional trauma, especially a breakup. I started seeing someone a few months after my breakup and it wasn’t until then that I really started processing and feeling like I was ready to move on. This will be so good for you, I’m happy to hear it.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

@trustlove52:  I’d like to respectfully disagree. Medication is different for everyone, and it can also take several tries before you find something that works, as each individual is going to have different results. For me, medication to help with my anxiety and depression was what gave me the ability to turn a corner and begin healing and working through my issues. Without it, I’m not sure I’d have gotten as far as I have by now.

Everyone is different, and the decision to take medication should be made between an individual and his/her doctor.

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@MissCalifornia:  my doctor had put me on medication and the best thing in my life was to totally get off and learn to be positive and grateful.  I am glad it worked for you.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

@trustlove52:  Hence why I said it’s different for everyone 🙂 I just know that I stayed away from it for a LONG time because people in my life kept insisting it would ruin me – and the opposite effect happened. I do plan on getting off eventually, but right now it’s what works for me. I just hate to see someone get afraid of something that could potentially be very beneficial for them without even getting a chance to explore it as an option.

I’m also glad to hear you’re doing well off of it 🙂

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

good luck! it will totally help!  

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m glad you’re getting help you need! I’m sure in time you’ll look back on this as a growing experience for you in life. There is definitely something better out there for you in your future!

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

So glad to hear you say this!!! I hope you get the peace and happiness you seek:) 

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Good luck! I’ve been following your story, and I’m glad to know you’re reaching out for help to get through this.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Best of luck to you. I’ve found therapy/talking to someone outside the sitaution to be very helpful. It’s okay to be nervous, just be honest and it’ll get easier.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@Packers12:  I’m so glad you are taking this step and braving going to a therapist! They are very used to emotions– helping people with their emotions is what they do, I’m sure they will not mind if you are upset.

I really hope this starts you on the way to feeling better!

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Hope the session with the therapist went okay 🙂

 

You seem like a nice, sweet guy who will make someone very happy one day. It just seems to me that it’s important for you to find an identity and to feel happy with yourself outside of a relationship. Please keep us posted.

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