Lasting in bed…?

posted 1 year ago in Intimacy
Post # 16
734 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2000

5-10 camp and as previous posters stated mine is ready in a few minutes to go again and the second time last a bit longer…

 I have never had a problem Oing in this amount of time he always makes sure I get mine too lmao  although there was one time when we had been apart for awhile and he was gone in like 2 strokes heehee poor  guy !๐Ÿ˜‚ 

Post # 17
229 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

5-10 minutes is the norm. Premature ejaculation is more like 30 seconds to 1 minute or so. Darling Husband lasts about 10 minutes without any foreplay but we almost never have sex without foreplay. We usually both give/receive oral so sex only ends up lasting about 2 or 3 minutes after all that. Fine by me! I had an ex who would last 45 min to an hour and it was boring and painful. 

Post # 18
393 posts
Helper bee

5-10 mins is perfect for me!! totally satisfied and can get on with the rest of the day/night. I’d hate forever sex, I would be so over it by 45 mins!!!!!

Post # 19
967 posts
Busy bee

cbryns :  Be thankful. Sounds like you have a great situation. There is nothing worse than a man that can go on forever without finishing. 

My fiancé goes forever. I now give times and say I am done in x minutes. Especially when we have been going at it for 2 hours and I have to get up in 6 for work. Nope, sleep becomes more important.

Post # 20
2239 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

cmsgirl :  I love my husbands brevity in comparison! He likes long sessions but its usually long sessions of foreplay! Win Win!

haha right?! It’s pretty much the best  ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ 

Post # 21
1455 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2021 - Kauai, HI

It’s awful when they go on forever after you’ve already finished.  I’ve experienced a dual climax a few times with my current SO.  What an awesome thing to be done at the same time. My ex had to pound me forever before he’d come.  It was terrible.  He mastrubated a lot and had low sensitivity. No thanks!

Post # 22
3555 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

cbryns :  if everyone timed their actual time during penetration – MOST couples would be between 5-10 minutes. Many people think it lasts longer because perception of time during intercourse can be skewed – but 5-10 minutes is totally average for penetration. Sooo….what’s the problem..?

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