I know a bunch of women in their late 20’s early thirties who are currently single, you are not alone : )
I am a single mother (although I have a long term boyfriend now) but I have had those thoughts of maybe not meeting someone, and it’s really upsetting.
The best advice I can give is – do you, have the mindset that “I won’t be single for long so I better enjoy my me time” think as in this first six months of the year is all about you – getting fit, organised, girls nights, long hot bubble baths, spend a bit extra on getting your hair done or a facial, take a cooking class or train for a marathon or fun run, re-arrange and re-decorate your appartment, declutter and organise your home, car and life – read, go see live music, have a girls weekend away.
This will not only inhance all areas of your life, but help you move on from this previous relationship, and refresh yourself for the right man to enter your life.
Doing you (as in what I have mentioned) is also very attractive to the opposite sex, ever hear the saying “they always come when your not looking” ?? This is basically it, you get so busy and happy doing you and soaking up your little time as a hash tag single independent women that a man see this and goes “wow” fast forward six months your cosy on the couch with your honey happy, but greatful you had that time with yourself before he swooped you off your feet. Please believe me when I say – this works.
Also read these books which helped me, If you have read them already, read them again! Haha
– Textbook Romance by Zoe Foster
– It’s called a break up because it’s broken
– The secret (some people wouldn’t agree but read it anyway)
– The law of attraction
– Act like a lady think like a man
– It’s just a date
Also, mediation and yoga, I like looking on YouTube for them as they are free and easy, there are ones about relaxing, Better sleep, attracting a soul mate – not all would like it or agree perhaps but honestly why not try it!
Hope this helps! Be postive, this is a little rough patch but you will not being single forever, his out there make you and your life so wonderfull so he can find you and never let you go ! Xx