(Closed) Late + BFN but not TTC

posted 7 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
7779 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I had a scare a few months before I actually got pregnant. I was totally convinced I was pregnant because my periods are never, ever late and it was late this time. When it finally did come, I found myself diappointed too. I was at the point where I didn’t even want kids yet and I was still sad about it. I never told Darling Husband about it.

I think it’s always a let down when you think something is happening and then it doesn’t.

Post # 5
2183 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011 - Florida Aquarium

I completely understand. I’ve always said that I would be ok as long as I got pregnant by the time I was 30, but… I’m 25 now, and we’ve had the discussion that if it did happen, we’d be ok (financially). I’m on the pill, but sometimes I secretly wish to be part of the 1% of pregnancies on the pill. I would never tell him that, and I hope that doesn’t make me a bad person!

As women, this all affects us more because it’s our bodies that they grow in… and when there’s the slightest possibility, some women go into “mommy mode” immediately, I think. It’s hard to come down from that.

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