(Closed) LD Changes a relationship?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Talk to ejs…she went through this not too long ago.

I’m still waiting on my LDR to end when the hubs moves home in October (he’s military too).  I’m sure yes, it will be an adjustment.  Each of us has been out on our own for 10 years now with our “own” space.  So, moving another person into a tiny apartment will be a bit of a challenge. lol  But, the way I see it, if you can successfully make an LDR work, you can make ANYTHING work. 

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

My  FH and I met in College my sophomore year but didnt start dating till that summer which he spent training for the Marines (at which point i had NO contact with him besides snail mail) Because of this we spent our college days together all the time! which was great, but at times we did get a little burnt out on one another and got into stupid little fights at times and looked forward to doing things with other people to have some time apart.  

Now that we are graduated he Commissioned into the Marine Corps and is always away and I only get to see him once a month, if that. Which, is probably how our lives will be for a while.  Its hard to be away from him and we both miss each other like crazy but when we are together we have the best time in the world.  It’ll be an adjustment when we move in together next year, but I couldnt be more excited!

What I’m trying to say is, yeah you could find yourselves getting annoyed with one another now and again because youre not used to spending so much time together. But that could happen to any couple to be completely honest.  Just maintain the communication you have in your relationship and like JsDragonfly said: “If you can make a LDR work you can make anything work!”

As long as you have a good balance between spending time with him, but also making time for yourself and your friends, then you have nothing to worry about! Don’t let anyone scare you.

Enjoy your time with him! 🙂 

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