- 5 years ago
- Wedding: December 2016
Hi everyone! I’ve been reading some stuff in the internet on how to actually react being newly engaged and soon on LDR.. Again! My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 11 months. And we started our relationship as LDR couple (although we already met each other back in college, we r classmates in 3 subjects). Well after being away with each other with just constant chatting and calls thanks to technology and spent the 1st year anniversary not together he came home and it was all good! We had fights but the distance for more than a year wasn’t an issue for us and to become awkward to each other. We both are serious about the relationship and we knew that this will be for forever. However after 6 months together I decided to take the job offer overseas with 2 year contract and we talked about it. He was super OK about it because we both understand that it’s for our future family. To cut the story short I decided to resign last Oct 18, because it was really lonely and most of all I’m no longer passionate about my job. And he loved it when I decided to go home. I went home last Nov.21, 2013. then he proposed, very simple proposal because he’s been jobless since he went home from overseas work, just had few extra job and owned for-rent house. We were awesome. And we became closer since I went home. But recently her sister offered a job for him overseas.. Again! It will be a 2 year contract but cannot be terminated unless with special reasons. we know, I know he need this because this will be his break again but it saddens me. Terribly, terribly confused me and always kept me thinking this past few days especially when we are not together and i’m alone in my house. We just reunited and he will probably out of the country again next month and i don’t want to stop him as well. He is very sure that it is already US in the ending given that both our families treat us an official couple. But still I’m sad And I’m alreay missing him. Help! How should I deal with this and hiw should i give him a blast before we become LDR couple again. Thanks for your replies!