posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
146 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@Sapphire-Dreamer:  I know…what you mean!

I am the one in the relationship who makes all the plans. If it wasnt for me, we would just stare at eachother all day without anything to do. We’d never go out or travel or anything. This is fine…except I cant plan this one out FOR HIM! haha! whenever I bring up the whole “engaged” idea and ask him about, he just gets annoyed and says he wants it to be a surprise. Which is also fine, but this guy can barely plan out dinner, never mind a wedding proposal.

So Im trying to do like you said: give him space and not push him so that he can have his surprise. But goodness, it sure is hard keeping my mouth shut. hehe!

Post # 4
628 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Good for you! It’s hard to not bring it up and leave him alone. I really wish the best of luck.

Post # 5
341 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m with you! I’m such a bother-bee! I need to just give the guy some room to make his own moves. No advice, just an “I feel you.”

Post # 6
646 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

 “Good! Get out of the house! Go look for a ring or think about how the hell you are gonna make this happen and make an honest woman out of me!”

this^ made me smile wildly.

great decision, hun! good luck to you.

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