Leave or keep trying

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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18 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2019

Leave him! It honestly only sounds like he’s with you because he feels bad. Counseling and staying together were your ideas… It doesn’t sound like he’s interested in staying in the relationship. I’m sorry! 

Find someone who wants to be with you.

Post # 3
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2185 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

It’s time to get out of this relationship.

Post # 4
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1351 posts
Bumble bee

Bee, he’s obviously suffering with his own problems, and he’s right that he can’t and shouldn’t be in a relationship. Depression is serious and horrible, and he definitely needs the opportunity to work through that–and if he wants to do it alone, he should. It doesn’t sound like your relationship is healthy at all. You need to leave. 

Post # 5
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6291 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

Ugh, relationships do not have to be this hard. There are 8 BILLION people on the planet. Something like 49% of them have dicks. You do not have to put up with all of this back and forth foolishness from one person in the middle of his own toxic spiral. Tell him “I think you were right to end things when you did. I wish you well.” and move on from this guy. Stay in therapy for yourself- it can be helpful to get a tune up after a relationship ends, especially one that was toxic or filled with drama like it sounds like this one was. Go be happy.

Post # 6
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10945 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

anonbee4567 :  

Oh, honey.  Love isn’t supposed to be this hard.  Move on.

Post # 7
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1484 posts
Bumble bee

Bee. Your about to get some advice on the bee. Some of it will be tough love and it might be hard to hear. But just think of every bee here is just part of your ever-loving bee girl tribe and everyone just wants the best for you.

He doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you. He’s told you in action and in words. You are being incredibly blind. Not only does he not love you, I don’t think this man even likes you. Couples therapy will not work and actually might make him even stronger in his position. Counselors cannot make someone fall in love with you. Hes not going to snap out of it one day and declare his undying love. 

You seem like a incredibly caring person. Free yourself to find someone who values you and reap the rewards of that feeling. 

Watch some YouTube videos of iyanla vanzant. Shes very uplifting. Do better bee. 

Hugs

 

 

Post # 8
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3045 posts
Sugar bee

Life is too short. Find someone who wants to be with you! 

Post # 9
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3879 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

Leave! This sounds so draining. Constant fighting, walking on eggshells, silent treatment, mean words, not even sure if he wants to be with you… just no. This isn’t worth staying in at all.

Post # 10
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2752 posts
Sugar bee

Leave!

Post # 11
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466 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

Only a few years together and you’re constantly fighting sounds like a big no. Imagine 5 or 10 years from now? I wouldn’t never wanna be with someone who is not confident with being with me. Run.

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