(Closed) Leaving our pets behind when we get married and go on the honeymoon

posted 7 years ago in Pets
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Tell me about it!  Our honeymoon was a month long.  We left our dog with my in-laws, and our cat with a housesitter, but I missed them terribly.  We travel fairly often, so I’ve had to leave them for 1-2 weeks at a time since then.  Of course you’ll miss them, but you’ll be having such a fun time on the honeymoon that they’re sort of in the back of your mind. And the reunion is great!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I also had a really hard time with this. We had to leave our cat and dog for three weeks! We missed them a ton and the only thing that helped was to call the kennell every few days to check up on them. The lady at the kennell must have been so annoyed with me, but they are our babies! I totally know how you feel right now, but don’t worry it will be totally worth it to have someone taking care of them during this busy time for you. Your furbabies will just love you even more when you get home 🙂

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m going to have a hard time with this too and we only have one kitty (who’s more like our son). We’ll only be gone for 2 days for our wedding (which isn’t an issue) but the 5 days for our Honeymoon will be rough. We’ve decided to set up a nanny cam type of thing and stream it to one of our websites that we can watch on our iPad. It’s a little extreme but I think it will give me peace of mind that Lincoln is fine while we’re gone. 

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

We didn’t and honestly, I like having a break away with just me and my Darling Husband. We can sleep in without the dog waking us up to go out and play, we can relax without her bouncing off the walls, we can go do things in places where she isn’t allowed to come, etc.

Don’t get me wrong, we love our dog. But sometimes it is good to get a break away.

Plus, she LOVES going to the kennel (aka “Doggie Camp”). She is only in a pen at night to sleep and for meals. The rest of the day, she gets to run around outside in their play area and play with all of the other dogs. She comes home exhasted!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I hear you. When we go away we leave our dogs with the woman who takes care of them during the day at the doggy daycare. She’s awesome and they sleep in her bed the entire time we are gone (spoiled!). She takes pictures and videos of them and them up on Facebook and her blog everyday. It’s fun to look at the pictures from work but it’s even nicer to be able to look at them when you are out of town so that we know they really having a ball without us (even though I am secretly hurt that they don’t seem to miss us at all! Lol).

Maybe if you are going somewhere that you will have internet connectivity you could ask your dog sitter to do something like that for you, even via email? Just a thought.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I have no idea what I’m going to do when FH and I go on our honeymoon. We won’t be gone too long, but I’m still a little anxious. There’s a Pet Nanny that’s watched him before and I know Gus has a great time being with the other dogs, so I’m not too worried but he still is my baby. Our cat will stay at my place but someone will come by to check on her and feed her. I know I’ll miss them, but I also know I’m going to enjoy myself on the honeymoon. And I can’t deny that it’ll be nice to be away from the animals for a while.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

We leave our dog with my in laws when we go away. My Mother-In-Law took all sorts of pictures of him doing “things.” Really she just put different objects in front of him and took a picture. There was Teddy reading a book, Teddy playing an instrument, etc. It was so cute and a fun surprise when we came home!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

We were really lucky to have our friends stay at our house during the honeymoon.  I felt okay with leaving for a week under those circumstances. (Although my friend did say that I was a bit of a psycho with all my lists of ‘care’ instructions…..we still laugh about it.)

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m freaking out about this as well. Our dog loathes other dogs, so leaving her with my sister or parents is out of the question, and FIs parents don’t have the room. We’ve been thinking about either a kennel (but she doesn’t like to eat unless someone is “watching”–she has issues) or having one of our friends stay at our house with her for the week we are gone.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I am extremely worried about leaving my cat at home for two weeks.  I can only home my fiances cousin will watch him again.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I am dreading that too,  we have left them for 2 weeks before when we have been on holidays,  and its funny when we come home because they wont have anything to do with us…….they just give us that look as if we are the anti-christ.  it takes a good week to 10 days for them to forgive us for leaving them.  LOL

but i would love to take them with us, i miss them so much whenever i go away. 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@UpstateCait: Great idea! I used to Skype with my puppy all the time when Fiance and I were living separately (the dog was with him, and while he was at work I kept an eye on him that way). It definitely gives you peace of mind but made me sad at the same time because he was often alone. It’s so funny to see what they’re up to when they’re alone, though!

We’ll be boarding our dog for our out of state wedding, then my parents are watching him while we’re on our honeymoon. I’ll be sad without him but I’m sure the break will be enjoyable!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Our pup is staying with my parents while we’re on our honeymoon. I know they’ll take good care of him, but I’m a bit worried as he doesn’t like to follow the rules while he’s at their house. He’s so good here, and then all of a sudden once he gets there he’s peeing all over the place and running away with shoes. My parents are going to want to kill me.

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