Post # 1
- Wedding: October 2014 - Fort Lauderdale Beach
How does that work? I know that I go to a courthouse and fill out paperwork but then…do I get some sort of paper for the officiant to sign? Afterwards, the officiant signs it and gives the paper back to us or does he mail it? How long has this taken for some of you already married wedding bees? I’m just a bit confused as to the process of receiving a marriage certificate…and anxious at having others doing paperwork for me.
Post # 2
We just got our marriage license yesterday so this is fresh in my mind 🙂
I’m not sure how it is state-to-state but we had to bring photo ID, proof of SS#, they asked for our family background, personal details, etc. filled out our license, had us proofread and printed it and gave it to us. One part is for us to keep, one is to give to our officiant to complete and he will mail it back to the clerk’s office in the county you obtained the license from. Once they receive the license, they will issue the marriage certificate and call you for pick-up. It’s valid for pick-up up to a year from issue in PA. Hope this helps
Post # 3
vlzaccaria: I’m in Canada so it might be different again but I went and got our marriage license, gave it to the officiant. He brought it day of the wedding, he signed we signed witnesses signed. He then had to file it with the province (that’s the way it works here) we had a copy of the record of solomnization for our records in case the other piece got lost. We had no issues.
Post # 4
We filled out a form, turned it in, they gave us the liscense to be signed (10min total). Gave it to our officiant to keep, we all signed it on the wedding day, they gave us a “certificate” which was really just a keepsake, the officiant mailed it in, I was able to go pick up copies when we got back from the honeymoon but it usually takes a couple days to get mailed and filed. Ours can be ordered by anyone for the rest of history it seems lol
Post # 5
vlzaccaria: I am not sure how it is for Florida, but in New York, the bride and groom have to be there to apply for the license.
You will get a paper to bring to your officiant for him/her to sign the day you are married and then mail back to the country clerks office.
We got married on Sept. 14 2013, the priest mailed the signed license on Sept. 16th (because the 14th was a Sat and Sun was the 15th which is a Sun) and we received our marriage certificate around Oct. 21st, so a little over a month after the wedding
Post # 6
I just did this in Florida. We went in to the marriage license part of the courthouse and told them what we needed. They gave us each a handbook on divorce and custody laws to read, and one form for us to fill out with names, birthdates, SSNs, place of birth, place of residence, etc. They require photo ID.
After we handed the form back, she gave us a note for the cashier. We went to the cashier and paid. We then came back, and she had us raise our right hands and swear the info was correct. She gave us the marriage license in an already addressed envelope with an insert that had instructions for an officiant. The officiant is the one who returns it to the courthouse. In our case, we’re going back to the courthouse to get married, so it will be filed right away.
Post # 7
Only one of us had to actually apply for the marriage license, but, we needed several documents.<br />1. true certified copies of birth certificates<br />2. social security numbers (I brought the cards just in case, but didn’t need it)<br />3. completed marriage license application<br />4. cash or check in the amount it would cost to pay for the license.
Then we had the marriage license. since we got married in the courthouse, we just walked it back over to the clerk of court who certified it.
Post # 8
typically, the officiant would sign the license and they mail it back into the courthouse with all signatures. you then wait for the marriage certificate in the mail.
Post # 9
I’m in Canada. Got the license, gave it to the officiant, we signed it during the ceremony, officiant sends it off. Afterwards, I had to go order the marriage certificate (costs about $50) and they mailed it. The only reason we needed it was because I changed my name.