Lesbian sister obsessed with adopting my baby?

posted 2 months ago in Pregnancy
Post # 17
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Helper bee

Tell her to get a sperm donor that resembles one or both of them, cos this whole thing with wanting to adopt yours is quite odd.

Post # 18
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

What I find to be horribly ironic (and sad and not right) is that some states have proposed bills that would bar your sister from adopting based on her sexual preference. It’s mind blowing that she would look at your unmarried status and say that you are unfit to raise a child because you are unmarried when there is legislation that feels the same way about her relationship 

Post # 19
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Worker bee

I am only asking this because this is just so bizarre and odd, but does she have a legitimate reason to believe or think you can’t care for this baby?

Is there past drug/alcohol abuse, dangerous conditions or anything like that?

If answer is no this is beyond out of line, creepy and just not okay… you dont need to be married.. you dont even need a partner to have a child there are many single parents out there and while maybe its more difficult for them they go on raising wonderful, smart and amazing children.

If she wants a baby very badly then she can go through process rest of same sex couples do like adoption, sperm donor or surrogacy etc .. not badgering you when you have never said you want to give the child up!

Post # 21
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2016 - Sussex, UK

This is really strange.

My friends are a same sex couple and have two children. Why does your sister think they can’t have a baby? Do they both have fertility problems? 

Post # 23
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

supertrooper0101 :  to add, what about ops financial situation? This is so bizarre that it feels like there is a piece of the story missing

Unless the sister is just this awful which is very possible 

Post # 27
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Busy bee

So what do you say to her when she says these things? 

Shut her down. Very clearly tell her you are not letting her adopt your baby and she needs to stop talking it or you will no longer have contact with her. Period. There is not discussion around the subject.

Post # 30
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

ohboy2017 :  you found out from someone else that she’s been talking about adopting your baby. What has she said directly to you?

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