Lesbian sister obsessed with adopting my baby?

posted 1 year ago in Pregnancy
Post # 76
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Bumble Beekeeper

There is a great deal about this that doesn’t add up. 

How much of this is coming to you through your religious sister and how much of this was said to you directly by your other sister? 

How long have you and your baby’s father been together? 

Post # 77
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Busy bee

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Sansa85 :  At first I thought this was all just effed up… but the more updates, the more this story isn’t making sense. I also asked her in a previous post if her sister has actually told her any of this or if she’s just making it up in her head, and she failed to respond. (Even if it’s a “he said, she said” scenario… I would encourage her to actually talk directly to her sister versus taking the word of family members who are excluding her in the first place… or, of course, her or her family members can be misinterpreting her sister, especially as it is being pushed through the grapevine.)

Post # 78
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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ohboy2017 :  So her reasoning to adopt the baby is because the father “won’t be in the picture” and it’s not healthy for the baby to not have a father? But you said she’s a lesbian and has a partner, so if she adopted the baby it still wouldn’t have a father? Baby then would have two mothers. 

So confused.

Post # 79
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Bumble bee

Your story has so many holes in it it’s unbelievable, literally. I’m suspicious that she is showing normal concern about your situation yet because you and/or your sister are homophobic it’s being twisted into some crazy plot where she is jealous and wants to steal your baby. 

Post # 80
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Bee Keeper

This.is.absolutely.bizarre 

There’s either a lot missing from this story or we’re not getting the whole truth, which is what I suspect. Why would you even think your sister would be a threat to take away your child? Or think that maybe it’s wrong to feel that way? There are laws in place to prevent this. And presumably you will be in place too, and, I don’t know, maybe stop her? 

Nothing adds up OP. It’s all too much.

Also, I don’t care what her sexual orientation is, she could be attracted to kangaroos as far as I’m concerned, it’s really not germane here.

Post # 81
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

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ariesscientist :  building someone up to be a monster in your head and getting messages second hand from a sister who has rejected the person in question actually makes more sense than the sister plotting to adopt the baby 

 

Op “my god why is sister one asking me who the father is and buying clothes and hounding me with questions?”

Sister two ”she wants to adopt your baby.”

op ”ooooohhhh my sister is obsessed with adopting my baby!”

Post # 82
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Why are you being so selfish? Just let her have your baby! 

Post # 83
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

As far as I can tell, sister two who has rejected sister one due to her sexual orientation is the only one who has told you that sister one wants to adopt your baby

Post # 84
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

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slomotion :  I legitimately just laughed out loud at work hahahah

Post # 85
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Bumble bee

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Sansa85 :  Exactly, OP also seems to be unable to tell the story cohesively and answer questions about gaping holes in it, which makes it even more likely to me that she’s either:

-A troll

-Going along with her homophobic sister to create this paranoid crazy plot in which her evil lesbian sister wants to steal her baby 

 

Post # 86
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Buzzing bee

I’m starting to think that certain questions are purposefully being ignored here…

Post # 87
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Buzzing bee

I just want to say how sad it is that your sister is excluded from events by the people who, you know, are supposed to love and care about her. I guess it’s better in your family to be seen as uncaring, unloving, horrible bigoted people than to not be ‘straight’. How very, very sad. 

Post # 88
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2016 - Sussex, UK

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strawberrysakura :  very sad. I have a feeling this is a troll post but anyway, the thought of excluding my gay brother from family events is beyond me.. imagine doing that to your son/ daughter/ sibling. 

Post # 89
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

 

So, if this story is real, this is my guess as to how it came about.

 

Your lesbian sister mentioned to your bigot sister that she was worried about you and the baby and she wondered how you would deal. Someone brought up whether or not you would keep the baby or give it up for adoption and your lesbian sister mentioned if you were going to give it up, she would love to adopt it. Then, a random thought became something she really hoped for and she became a little obsessed over it. I doubt she realizes how she coming across. Your bigot sister saw this happening and threw her under the bus and brought it up to you in a way that suggested she was trying to take the baby from you.

Post # 90
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2020 - Summer Camp!

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Sansa85 :  It sounds like she’s just using that as an excuse because she wants the baby. Maybe she has her own fertility issues? Although I doubt both her and her partner so where this would be an issue. 

Edit: Just read the more recent stuff. I dunno…

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