Lesbian sister obsessed with adopting my baby?

posted 1 year ago in Pregnancy
Post # 91
1941 posts
Buzzing bee

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EllyAnne :  I can’t. I mean, I grew up in a small town where there was definitely a lot of bigotry, so I have heard the ‘arguments’, but at the end of the day this is someone that you supposedly care about and to just betray a person like that is, in my opinion, simply unforgivable. My family IS a religious family, several are priests and ministers, and we have always been taught that you love others above all. One family priest actually left the priesthood late in life based solely on the fact that he disliked the treatment of women and the LGBTQ community within the faith. 

I am not particularly religious anymore, but I still know the doctorine. I think a lot of people would benefit from a biblical history and interpretation course, it blows my mind how people can get it so wrong. For example, the Old Testament is Jewish law. It’s Jewish history. It is NOT Christianity. The New Testament is Christianity. All the old laws, all the old rules (except the 10 Commandments) were set aside in the New Testament, and even above the commandments there are the ultimate two – love your God, love your neighbor. You have Jesus, and he’s keeping company with the worst people – criminals, prostitutes, tax collectors. The most hated and vile people in society at that time and he made a point of being seen with them, opening his arms to them, eating with them, staying in their homes. And somehow, people think that a man like that would want you to spurn and mistreat others based on their sexual orientation? It’s just the absolute opposite of everything Christianity is supposed to stand for. I have to think that if it does exist, there is a special place in hell for those who call themselves Christians and yet sow hatred and intolerance. 


Post # 92
895 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

What in the world is going on with this family? The only one that sounds have sane is your “lesbian” sister. You need to stop listening to your bigot sister because she sounds like she is filling your head with crazy shit about your other sister because she doesn’t like her because she is a lesbian. And the way it sounds to me you don’t seem to be to keen on the idea either, which is to bad. 

Your whole story is very twisted. I think you are leaving alot of things out to make yourself look good. If your bigot sister is so religous why the hell is she talking to you anyway? Didn’t you get married out of wed lock? Isn’t that a huge no no? You said it was an oop’s. I think there is a bunch of things you are either making up as you go along or your not telling us.

Post # 93
5417 posts
Bee Keeper

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Sansa85 :  Probably. I’m starting to wonder if the OPs sister has legitimate concerns but their homophobia is affecting how they see her concern. OP if you’re marrying the father next week then dont they know he’s the father? I’m so confused now. 

Post # 94
448 posts
Helper bee

I hate it when Bees come on this forum just to post foolishness in order to stir the pot. 

This community is very supportive and it’s an utter waste of time to post ridiculous threads. 

OP, it’s clear that you are messing with us. Don’t you have anything better to do? 

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