(Closed) Less than 2 weeks until the day and feeling very down…

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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58 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

We are date twins, and honey, I am feeling A LOT of the same things. I lost both of my parents in 2010 and 2011 so although I don’t know exactly how you feel, I do understand loss and the emotions it can bring.

 

I don’t really know what to tell you other than we are going to have weddings come rain or shine. All we can do is our best. They might not be perfect, but that’s ok. At the end of the day we’ll be married.

 

I think your day will be beautiful. Just try to focus on spending time with the people you love and who love you.

 

Wish I had some more advice!! keep your head up!! I can tell you I think your feelings of being overwhelmed and stressed are NORMAL. xoxo

Post # 4
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460 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Soon2BMrs.T:  I’m so sorry you’re going through all of this. I know this is so much easier said than done, but try to dwell on the positive: Your fiance is extremely supportive and loves you, and you have each other. And you probably don’t have time for this, but if possible, maybe you could sit down with a counselor just once to vent and get it all out. I really hope things turn around for the better with everything that you’re going through, and I hope you’re able to grab hold of some happiness even in the middle of all the stress.

Post # 6
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610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@Soon2BMrs.T:  I’m so sorry for your loss

big hugs from another Ontario bride xoxox

Post # 7
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460 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Soon2BMrs.T:  I’m sorry for your loss. And I’m glad for your “light.” Now on your wedding day you can remember him and know that he would be happy for you and is no longer suffering. And I think it’s wonderful that you’ll have your family with you. *hugs*

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

🙁 so sorry for your loss. i am happy to hear however that you have such an awesome and supportive Fiance and a family who can be there for you when you need them.

i pray idont have any losses so close to my own wedding, but with it being 3 months away, i am already starting to feel the pains of the losses i’ve already been through and those people not being there. that light at the end of the tunnel is the best possible thing to focus on. there will be so many good and happy parts of your day that you cant even see yet.

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