(Closed) LESS THAN 700 DAYS!

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Yay! How exciting!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

Oooh wow! Hope everything works out for you 😀 Exciting!

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@laughs:  Can I ask something? Why do you have to wait until he thinks it’s right? Why can’t you just tell him that you’d like to get engaged, or propose to him yourself? You think the time is right, why does he have all of the power? Two years seems like a long time, and you have no idea when he’s going to propose. Why not just do it yourself? This is really confusing me…

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Ruby-Redshoes:  Being ready for marriage is something that both people should agree on. Just because one person is ready does not mean the other person is ready or that the other person should be pressured. Often, women feel ready before men, so it’s more common for the guy to need more time. So many people think that the “man” has all the power in these situations. But, if a couple clearly comunicates and sets a timeline they can both agree on, then there is no power struggle.

Best of luck to you OP on your less than 700 day wait!

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