(Closed) Less than a month to go and I'm not sure I want this wedding anymore

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I had that too.  I would take a planning vacation for a few days.  Do nothing wedding related and do other things. Focus on yourself and FH.  That is what got me out of my funk.  Good luck

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I felt exactly the same way once everything was booked and done. Its like as soon as everything is ready to go, its still a while to go till the actual day of the wedding and so if you were excited every single day from now till then,youd be exhausted!

Dont worry when it gets a lot closer to the day and the plans youve made start coming into action your excitement will peak!

By The Way I didnt even get excited on the day,until I put on my dress, then I went into serious hyper mode!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I started to feel a bit this way towards the wedding day.  Not 100% your feelings, but I was starting to freak out a bit about how much we spent.  The day after the wedding, Darling Husband and I were talking about what an amazing day it was and how all my planning (which towards the end, I just didn’t care anymore to add any new DIY projects) paid off.  We did not regret a single penny.  It was a beautiful wedding that went without a hitch and everyone had an awesome time.  We’d do it all over again.  

Just relax, take some time off wedding planning and enjoy the days.  You’ll get back into wanting to do a few wedding things here and there.  The day is very close and just think that you’ll finally be done with it all and married to your best friend! 🙂

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’m just over six months away from my wedding, and I worry that I’m going to feel like you. Heck, I kind of already do. I actually wanted to elope, but my fiance insisted that he couldn’t get married without his family and friends, so I gave in. My mother and fiance are both being very helpful with the planning, but I’m so sick of vendors not calling me back or replying to e-mails.

I will say, though, when I actually picture us getting married in my mind(me in my dress, which I love, and him in his fancy three-piece suit), I get chills and can’t help but smile. So I guess my advice would be to just find something small like that to look forward to.

I truly wish you the best of luck and hope that you can find a way to enjoy the rest of the time leading up the wedding and the wedding itself.

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I just wanted to comment and let you know that you are not alone. We have a lot of time before we get married but I’m already upset about how much money we are spending on this that I kind of want to elope as well. So don’t feel like your the only one!

I’m sure that after all the planning and stress once you see your day unfold in front of you, you will without a doubt enjoy it and find it all worth it!

Good Luck and I hope you have a fantastic day!

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