- 4 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
So my wedding is June 29 and I am beyond excited! However, I have been having some bridesmaid issues recently that are really upsetting me. My bachelorette party is this weekend. It was originally supposed to be last weekend in Nashville. One of my bridesmaids K told me that she wasn’t going to be able to get off of like she originally thought she would. So I decided I would rather have all of my girls there instead of going away. So I had my MOH move it to this weekend and we are just staying where we live. I thought everything was fine. Until k posted on Facebook that she would be getting a tattoo on her foot Saturday the evening of my bachelorette. I don’t think that would make for a fun night. We also had plans for Friday night just for the bridesmaids go out out. She told me she couldn’t make Friday because she was seeing a guy who was moving away. She’s been seeing him for two weeks! She is also the type to have a new guy every week. She proceeded to tell me she wouldn’t make it to my final dress fitting Saturday morning or the rest of the things that are planned for Saturday before the night out.
i don’t know what to do. I moved the entire thing so she could be there because that I was important to me. Also I have not required much from them. My family threw me a shower. I bought the shoes and I’m paying for hair and makeup. She told me he may be leaving earlier than that so if that’s the case shell be there for it all. It all depends on him. Shes said sorry but only for that i changed the weekend for her and then her plans changed. she has other obligations. She’s flaking for a guy who could careless about her. It really hurts. She hasn’t even called. Only texted me. she thinks it’ll just be fine for her to show up to go out after missing everything and not caring that she’s hurt my feelings. I don’t know what to do. Please i want to have a good time and I know the moment I see her ill just be mad. Thanks bees!!!