(Closed) Let it go? FFIL drama about money

posted 8 years ago in Money
Post # 3
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Honey bee

Yes, let it go.  At least the rehearsal dinner part. Tell FH to communicate to them again that they do not have to throw the lunch.

As for the reason for choosing New Orleans, I would right a heart felt email (with FH’s knowledge) to them explaining the reasoning.  Tell them why you chose it and that you are sorry its becoming a stress to them and you can understand it because your parents and family are also traveling etc., but that this is really important to the two of you. (a subtle way of saying they are not the only ones who have to travel)

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I agree.  Let it go, but don’t cave. Inlaws can be pushy.  Mine make me so mad but I swallow it down for Fiance. I agree about the email.  Write it heartfelt, explain why you chose your location and that your family is enduring the exact same problems as theirs. This may keep them quiet or it may not solve anything but at least you were able to sort of say your peace. And again, don’t cave when it comes to them, that’s probably the most important to keeping your relationship with your Fiance on good terms.

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