(Closed) Lets get Down to the nitty gritty … Money

posted 8 years ago in Money
Post # 3
353 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m a little confused on the costs and what you want your dad to pay, but the total sounds reasonable for a destination wedding. Did you mean your dad is paying for 50% of everything or just his share of the guests? It’s very generous of your dad to help pay for things like the photographer and your dress.

Why don’t you just ask your dad to pay for the extra guests he wants to invite? That way it’s no extra cost to you guys.

Post # 4
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’m really confused by what you wrote. Your dad is offering to pay for half the wedding or for the cost of the people he wants to invite?

Either way, just tell your dad that you aren’t comforatble with extended family being invited.  That you and your Fiance have made your list together and his family isn’t inviting extended family and neither are you.  If he wants to contribute, awesome, but you don’t want to invite more people.


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