(Closed) Lets talk about blowies…. :/

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@eeerika22:  I always found that the further in he was, the easier it was to swallow.  Now it doesn’t bother me whatsoever.  

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@eeerika22:  There have been a lot of heated discussions about this topic. My personal opinion: I don’t let Fiance come in my mouth either. I have never done it and won’t (maybe ever ???). I don’t like the idea…

What you should do? No idea… sorry…

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

So, since we’re being blunt, I find that right when he finishes taking him in almost as far as you can go accomplishes two things:

1) You can’t taste what goes in, ’cause it’s so far back on your toungue

2) You can’t even really feel it, because your first instinct is just to swallow

You should be able to anticipate the timing, and just kind of hold it there and continue stroking with your hand just outside of your mouth.  If you don’t know when he’s going to finish, ask him to tell you… and tell him what you’re working on 🙂

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Shoshota:  I remember the conversation you’re referring to, and it did get a little ugly, but this poster seems to genuinely want to do/tolerate/like it.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I actually have never finished my fiance haha. We are more foreplay people ending with sex. However to the relevant part – I have for others, and I remember clearly having this issue with my first serious boyfriend. He was the first person I did anything with, and the first bj i gave. I had no problem letting him go in my mouth and swallowing until the day we did it with the light on and i saw cum in broad daylight. It was so disgusting to me I could not do it without gagging after that. I don’t know if I’ve ever fully gotten over it but I am able to get past it by simply thinking about something else. This is 100% a mental thing,and its hard to do anything except for the fact that its about to be in your mouth because you know its about to “come” lol. So I would try my hardest to think about something completely unrelated while you are doing it and try to relax (being tense or anxious about it makes gagging worse). Hopefully you can get over that mental block! Or, just come to an agreement that he doesn’t get to do that anymore, sorry!

Post # 10
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Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@bells219:  Yeah, that got ugly really fast… I see that she is just troubled… sorry i can’t help 🙁

Post # 11
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I agree with the PPs who said that if he finishes when he is further in your mouth, it all just goes right down your throat and you can’t even feel or taste it.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Do it in the shower. Then you can spit it right now. There’s also a new flavor strip you can put in your mouth for it.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper

I let him finish in my mouth but can’t swallow, makes me gag… It goes into a kleenex!

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

You do what is comfortable for you. I do not swallow, I spit. Always. I would gag otherwise. There is nothing I can do about it as it is not the taste, I have an extreme gag reflex. It makes it hard to brush my teeth even. You can try what the others suggested, but do not despair if it dosn’t work.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

i dont swallow, i just hold my breath (so i don’t taste it) when he says hes about to and then i run to the bathroom and spit. It grosses me out but it makes him happy. I have an extreme gag reflex as well. There’s no way i could swallow….**shivers**

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh hell no! The conversation with us has never even come up – he’s always given me a warning tap before it happens. The one time it DID happen, I spit it onto his stomach immediately, out of instinct!

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