Post # 1
This is kind of embaressing but I dont know what to do and I need advice/tips…
My SO really loves bjs (what man doesnt?) I am fine with doing that deed but the problem that I am having is letting him finish in my mouth… He ALWAYS wants to finish in my mouth but I just cant do it! I want to be able to let him and be like sexy about it but I am not sexy with it at all….I choke, gag and ugh….Then he laughs at me and I feel bad but he says its not funny its just cute and I guess he laughs when he cums. He doesnt taste bad but I guess its more a mental or texture thing? I want to be able to do this for him but I dont know what to do or how to get over the “end” part. Help!
Post # 3
@eeerika22: I always found that the further in he was, the easier it was to swallow. Now it doesn’t bother me whatsoever.
Post # 4
@eeerika22: There have been a lot of heated discussions about this topic. My personal opinion: I don’t let Fiance come in my mouth either. I have never done it and won’t (maybe ever ???). I don’t like the idea…
What you should do? No idea… sorry…
Post # 5
So, since we’re being blunt, I find that right when he finishes taking him in almost as far as you can go accomplishes two things:
1) You can’t taste what goes in, ’cause it’s so far back on your toungue
2) You can’t even really feel it, because your first instinct is just to swallow
You should be able to anticipate the timing, and just kind of hold it there and continue stroking with your hand just outside of your mouth. If you don’t know when he’s going to finish, ask him to tell you… and tell him what you’re working on 🙂
Post # 7
@Shoshota: I remember the conversation you’re referring to, and it did get a little ugly, but this poster seems to genuinely want to do/tolerate/like it.
Post # 9
I actually have never finished my fiance haha. We are more foreplay people ending with sex. However to the relevant part – I have for others, and I remember clearly having this issue with my first serious boyfriend. He was the first person I did anything with, and the first bj i gave. I had no problem letting him go in my mouth and swallowing until the day we did it with the light on and i saw cum in broad daylight. It was so disgusting to me I could not do it without gagging after that. I don’t know if I’ve ever fully gotten over it but I am able to get past it by simply thinking about something else. This is 100% a mental thing,and its hard to do anything except for the fact that its about to be in your mouth because you know its about to “come” lol. So I would try my hardest to think about something completely unrelated while you are doing it and try to relax (being tense or anxious about it makes gagging worse). Hopefully you can get over that mental block! Or, just come to an agreement that he doesn’t get to do that anymore, sorry!
Post # 10
@bells219: Yeah, that got ugly really fast… I see that she is just troubled… sorry i can’t help 🙁
Post # 11
I agree with the PPs who said that if he finishes when he is further in your mouth, it all just goes right down your throat and you can’t even feel or taste it.
Post # 12
Do it in the shower. Then you can spit it right now. There’s also a new flavor strip you can put in your mouth for it.
Post # 13
I let him finish in my mouth but can’t swallow, makes me gag… It goes into a kleenex!
Post # 14
You do what is comfortable for you. I do not swallow, I spit. Always. I would gag otherwise. There is nothing I can do about it as it is not the taste, I have an extreme gag reflex. It makes it hard to brush my teeth even. You can try what the others suggested, but do not despair if it dosn’t work.
Post # 15
i dont swallow, i just hold my breath (so i don’t taste it) when he says hes about to and then i run to the bathroom and spit. It grosses me out but it makes him happy. I have an extreme gag reflex as well. There’s no way i could swallow….**shivers**
Post # 16
Oh hell no! The conversation with us has never even come up – he’s always given me a warning tap before it happens. The one time it DID happen, I spit it onto his stomach immediately, out of instinct!