(Closed) Lets talk about S…

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
Member
3645 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

You need to talk about it again and you need to make 100% that he knows just how big of an issue this is. And it IS a big issue. If sex wasn’t important to a relationship then no one would care about physical cheating.

Make a rule that once a week (or whatever timeline works for you), the sex has to be all. about. you. Beforehand, make a list of the things he could do for you and how to please you and make sure that you finish. THEN you can have sex together. Or even have a night that is solely about you 100% followed by a night about him 100%.

If he doesn’t take this seriously and doesn’t make an effort to improve. Get a sex therapist. A sex positive therapist who can help you two connect again. If he isn’t willing to make this effort then he IS the selfish asshole he’s appearing to be.   

Post # 4
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8069 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I agree with PP that you need to discuss this with your partner but you also have realise that the movies and real life are two different things.

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