(Closed) Let's talk about sex, baby!

posted 4 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How do you and your partner feel about oral sex?
    We both hate it : (5 votes)
    1 %
    We both enjoy it : (242 votes)
    72 %
    I love it, he hates it : (11 votes)
    3 %
    He loves it, I hate it : (76 votes)
    23 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    8993 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    He loves it, it has never interested me.

    Post # 4
    Member
    233 posts
    Helper bee

    I enjoy the occassional BJ! It’s really empowering for me. I like having control every now and then. Don’t get me wrong, I love getting mine too!

    We’re really into oral… TMI, ohh well 🙂

     

    Post # 5
    Member
    1130 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    We both like it. I’ve never heard of a guy not liking it, hmmmm…

    Post # 8
    Member
    12257 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I will! We both love it, but DH is a bit of a teenage boy about “giving”.

    Post # 10
    Member
    756 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    My husband likes BJs, and I like to give them. I’ve never heard of a guy who doesn’t like them either. My husband doesn’t really give me oral that often. It’s pretty rare. He usually touches me instead, and that tends to do it for me a little better. But sometimes I want him to go down on me out of principle since I do it for him a lot.

    Post # 11
    Member
    526 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Need another option-meh. Neither of us are super into or not into it. We don’t hate or love it either way-there’s plenty of other things that we’re much more interested in, so oral is a very rare happening indeed. But, that said, we go through phases, there have been times, years ago, that we were really into it. Maybe one day we will be again, but for now we don’t care in the least

    ETA: As far as the givng/receiving split goes- he gives much more than he receives

    Post # 12
    Member
    7119 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @MrsPanda99:  I love giving BJs and DH has so far never complained about getting one! I’m not really a fan of receiving oral though. DH gives it a try every once and awhile and doesn’t mind doing it at all but I just haven’t gotten into it.

    Post # 13
    Member
    756 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @Nika2013:  It can be totally empowering because you have this thing guys consider so precious in your mouth. But you can also turn it into a submissive thing, which turns some people on. That’s why BJs are so cool. It can be whatever you want to make it. 

    Post # 14
    Member
    1130 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    @MrsPanda99:  I often think that all guys are complete horndogs but it’s obviously not the case! I took a human sexuality course in school and learned that more women are uninterested in receiving then men are. I think it’s because a lot of women often feel “gross” down there. Some food for thought right there.

    Post # 15
    Member
    12257 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @MrsPanda99:  I meant that he loves to recieve, but HATES to give. I think it’s been almost a year!

    And yeah, one of DH’s friends made a dirty joke recently about “Taking me off (DH’s) hands.” And he was like “You can’t handle her. I can’t handle her!”

    Post # 16
    Member
    881 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    @MrsPanda99:  Actually one of my really good guy friends said he would never want to receive oral from a girl he was dating (he is engaged now) because he feels like it’d mean he was kissing his penis….I thought that was a really weird way to think about it especially since he doesn’t mind giving it. 

     

    Both my FI and I don’t have those same senitments if you catch my drift hahahaha 

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