(Closed) Let's talk about sex, baby!

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How do you and your partner feel about oral sex?
    We both hate it : (5 votes)
    1 %
    We both enjoy it : (242 votes)
    72 %
    I love it, he hates it : (11 votes)
    3 %
    He loves it, I hate it : (76 votes)
    23 %
  • Post # 47
    Member
    663 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    We both enjoy it but we don’t do it often because we both prefer intercourse much more!

    Post # 48
    Member
    3246 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    @MrsPanda99:  I figured it was. 😉 It is pretty rare to be a couple who don’t regularly enjoy this form of sex. I have not slept with many guys, but I was certainly surprised when I had to ASK my SO what he thought of being given blow jobs. . . I expected that if he wanted them, he would have said something or done something to indicate that he did! Turns out he thinks other activities sex-wise are way more fun. (TMI LOL)

    On another note, you’ve got me thinking that I should change my avatar too. To something more fall-ish, maybe?

    Post # 49
    Member
    9756 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2019

    We both love it (receiving). I love giving, he says he likes giving it to me but RARELY does (I am talking maybe once or twice a year if I am lucky). I come up with possible explanations to him for why he doesn’t do it like ‘hair, bad taste’, etc. He denies all explanations I suggest and when I ask him why he says he ‘doesn’t know’ but still claims he likes it. Sorry for the long rant, this is a touchy subject for me.

    Post # 50
    Member
    2036 posts
    Buzzing bee

    He usually asks for it so I give it LOL, but I prefer intercourse.  We usually compromise…I’ll start by giving him what he wants and then we finish how I want.  Works for us!

    Post # 51
    Member
    5188 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    It’s a rare occurrence between us. He enjoys receiving, I don’t enjoy giving, I enjoy receiving but I don’t ask for it much. 

    Post # 52
    Member
    293 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    basically we both like to receive it but hate to give it lol…I only do it because I know he loves it and vice versa

    Post # 54
    Member
    98 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    We both love recieving AND giving!  It’s a regular part of our foreplay.

    Post # 55
    Member
    22 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    We both LOVE it. He is very talented in that department (cant say that for other guys I datedSurprised)

    Post # 56
    Member
    2023 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @MrsPanda99:  When you say like oral sex, do you mean receiving it or giving it?  Im confused.  I like giving it, he loves receiving it.  He hates giving it and I dont like receiving it so that works out well. 

    Post # 57
    Member
    7646 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @MrsPanda99:  It depends on my mood! Typically we both enjoy it, and I do so enjoy giving it, but receiving it–not so much. Not being he isn’t goo at it, but because I just get uncomfortable for some reason. Probably becuase it doesn’t do anything for like sex and playing around can.

    Post # 58
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    1239 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    I voted wrong because I didn’t read it correctly!!!!

    He’s not a big fan of oral, he enjoys receiving, but he doesn’t finish from it, so it’s more of a foreplay thing than a sex thing.  I like giving. 🙂 I’m a giver!

    He’s not big on giving, and I detest receiving (I think during oral sex, does not lead to orgasms. LOL) so that works out well. 

    Post # 59
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    1531 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    We both enjoy receiving it.  And I enjoy giving it.  My Darling Husband enjoys giving it when hes actually down there – but he doesnt do it enough.  Def something MrBaldEagle has to work on. 

    Post # 60
    Member
    293 posts
    Helper bee

    We both love oral, and he loves giving even more than receiving, which is perfectly fine by me! 

    I do enjoy giving as well, but have to be in the right mood, otherwise I get bored really quickly! 

    Post # 61
    Member
    1112 posts
    Bumble bee

    I really like having it performed on me, and he loves it too. Sometimes he just doesn’t like my taste…ha. Honestly, I don’t like giving BJs. I wish I did. I feel like I’m not very good at it. He doesn’t seem to mind though. He is not selfish at all in bed and never complains. I just wish I could give him a successful BJ. I have some physical issues with my back and hips, so pretty much every position I can think of to sit/lie in to give him a BJ is uncomfortable and I always have to stop before he comes, which frustrates us both…so I would rather avoid it. :/

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