(Closed) Let's talk about sex, baby!

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How do you and your partner feel about oral sex?
    We both hate it : (5 votes)
    1 %
    We both enjoy it : (242 votes)
    72 %
    I love it, he hates it : (11 votes)
    3 %
    He loves it, I hate it : (76 votes)
    23 %
  • Post # 62
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    1893 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @MrsPanda99:  I enjoy giving BJs. Too Much Information, Especially when hes tired, and doesnt think he would cum and i end up proving him wrong

    Post # 63
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    124 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    We enjoy pleasing each other and we enjoy receiving from each other too. This thread made me shy.

    Post # 64
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    442 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I love giving (and Fiance loves it, obviously haha), but I don’t like receiving. I’m a bit too sensitive down there, so receiving oral sex is mostly uncomfortable for me. Finger stimulation works much better for me.

    Post # 65
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    1647 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013 - Rustic mill, historical site

    I accidentally voted wrong  >.<

    He loves it, I don’t like it.   I feel weird receiving, and penis tastes disgusting, so there’s your answer, haha.    He loves giving and receiving.

    Post # 66
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    158 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    He loves receiving it, I don’t love giving it but I don’t hate it. It’s one of those things I will do to make him happy. Me on the other hand, I hate receiving it, so therefore it never happens! 

     

    I swear sometimes he acts like a teenage boy though, always slinging his johnson in my face or making some sexual comment about giving him a BJ. LOL

    Post # 67
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    2521 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I have never given him oral sex – I said I wouldn’t until we were married and he hasn’t asked for it yet! So I don’t know if I like giving it or not!

    He gives me oral sex quite often because it’s the only way I can really orgasm aside from penetrative sex. 

    Post # 68
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    1162 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I like to give, he loves to receive. I hate to receive, he’s indifferent about giving. So it works pretty well for us!

    Sometimes he makes a move but I put a stop to that right away – nuh uh! I feel both very awkward/uncomfortable (it doesn’t do it for me, no matter how “good” the guy is at it) and I feel a bit gross down there most of the time, but Im also on the Implanon and my body isn’t working right (sorry if TMI) but I often have discharge and I would not let him even go near that! Gross! If he’s feeling particularly wanting though Ill let him have a little fun in the shower, and only in the shower!

    As for giving, I really enjoy the process, but depending on the cleanliness of the junk sometimes I refuse or I don’t enjoy it at all – it has to be “squeaky clean and lemon fresh” 😉

    Post # 69
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    421 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    Someone may have pointed this out before, but I have overhead two different male friends over the years say in a group setting that they disliked it simply because they felt most women didn’t “know how to do it properly” and so it wasn’t enjoyable. Simply bobbing their head (no tongue action, lots of gagging, no special tenchnique or even accidentally using their teeth… Ouch!)

    I suppose I could also imagine that from a female perspective, if a guy were clueless when performing it. I’m sure it would be like, “ok… Is it over yet?”. One of those guys also retracted that statement once he began seeing a….ermmmm…. more talented woman? 

    So maybe that bee and her husband just simply don’t like OS with eachother? My FH is not an overtly sexual individual. I don’t even think he got that “luxury” in very many of his prior relationships. He’s pretty bashful, old school and respectful when it comes to that sort of thing. So, I don’t really think he knew what he was missing out on, and easily could have said before that he “didn’t love it”. However, I also wanted to make that same man MY husband and can guarantee he LOVES it now. ; )

    So, I’d imagine unless it were an issue where the receiver is either insecure or feels there’s a “respect” or moral boundary being crossed, that it has to do more with the couple itself. Maybe he doesn’t want to reciprocate? Maybe he doesn’t like the way she does it? Something along those lines.

    Post # 70
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    2890 posts
    Sugar bee

    He loves receiving it, I love giving it. I hate hate hate receiving it, which is unfortunate because my Fiance would love to give back.

     

    Post # 71
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    4605 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    We both like receiving it, I’m just not so big on giving it as much as he’d like. Ever since I had my wisdom teeth out earlier this year, I can’t open my mouth as wide as I used to, so my jaw ends up hurting before FH can really enjoy himself. 

    Post # 72
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    344 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - Lake Anna Winery

    My Darling Husband never thought he’d find a girl that loves giving BJ’s… But he wound up marrying one! Haha. He rarely reciprocates though. 

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