(Closed) Lets Talk Pregnancy Sex (a WHOLE bunch of TMI included)

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
700 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2004

weellll, I am also pregnant (baby #2) and the only position that really “works” for me is to lay on my back with my husband kind of laying perpendicular to me on his side. 1 of my legs between his, the other kind of slung over his hip. We end up kind of looking like a “T” haha. also, we like to bring vibrators into the mix (esp. when I’m pregnant) and it really works out for me this way pretty much every time. I hope this is helpful, I know it’s kind of hard to picture though.

Post # 4
1855 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Reverse the cowgirl and you should be able to get there.  You’d still be feeling/seeing your belly, but at least it wouldn’t seem as awkward.  Have your man spread his legs a bit and you’ll have space under your belly for manual stimulation. 

Post # 5
7779 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Nothing worked for us. We had sex maybe 4 times in my entire pregnancy, only one of which was after I started showing. Darling Husband was weirded out by it and it was incredibly uncomfortable for me, not to mention that I had ZERO sex drive.

Post # 6
5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

@blondemotives:  I love your description! Awesome.

Have you tried end of the bed with your legs down with him standing in front of you? ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 7
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Reverse cowgirl works for us too. Then your belly won’t get smushed on Darling Husband, it will just fall in between his legs.

At 36 weeks pregnant and measuring 41 weeks, I am surprised to say we’re still having sex probably 3 times per week. We had a little rough patch where I felt disconnected, but we got back to a good place.  What’s working for us now is for me to actually put pillows under my hips so that I am at an angle. It felt funny at first, but now it allows for plenty of contact on my lady parts as well. 

Post # 8
7296 posts
Busy Beekeeper

can he go down on you?

Post # 10
887 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I’m 29 weeks and love pregnancy O’s ๐Ÿ™‚ but the only way I can achieve it is by having Darling Husband use toys (vibrators) on me…I haven’t been able to get it from my normal position for quite awhile now. It still feels amazing, but I miss that closeness. As for positioning, we normally do doggy or spooning. Definitely going to try pillows after PPs suggestions.

Post # 11
7296 posts
Busy Beekeeper

@MarryMeTiffany:  it probably would! if you are not enjoying it, then it means he is not doing it right.  might be worth re-exploring and guiding him a little.  i never got to O that way with anyone in my life until Darling Husband…i had given up on it being possible, but now it is a must almost every time we have sex!  

*blushing now because that is about the most Too Much Information i have yet to give on the bee!*

Post # 13
1183 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@MarryMeTiffany:  I think the same things when Darling Husband goes down south….

He wants to do it way more than I allow him to, and I even O from it! But I just can’t get outta my own head.

Post # 14
336 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Towards the end of the pregnancy, everything becomes more difficult. Even things which seem so easy (sex & sleep) are difficult. I would definitely try the reverse cowgirl like PP’s suggested. As well as toys and manual stimulation for you and anything you are willing to do for him ๐Ÿ˜‰ It is just one of those joys of those long 40 weeks lol!! But SOO worth it in the end. I could handle many sexual positions after like 25-30 weeks. It was actual the first time we were successful at the whole “spooning” position lol!! It wont last forever and there are alot of option out there. Play around ๐Ÿ™‚ Good luck!!

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