Post # 46
For the last 8 months or so I’ve had zero desire for sexual things and kissing is repulsive to me….so that’s tough for my fiancé.
We have sex twice a month, but he gets his probably once a week in one way or another? He initiates 80% of the time but I make sure I offer too so he doesn’t feel like I’m being put out. We do all standard positions but I’m never on top.
Post # 47
Been together 9 years now and still averaging 3 times a week. Not bad for crazy careers lol. About 50/50 when it comes to initiating. I love anything from behind the most and he’s the same. It’s great and it works. 🙂
Post # 48
If you’re on the same page and are happy and loving and have a solid connection in other ways then I don’t see how it’s sad or bad! I think society in general is a bit sex obsessed, there’s not always something wrong with not having it.
Post # 49
- Wedding: May 2017 - Ocean front
WOW, flashback to an old post!! Haha
I’m happy to report that we talked after that post, and agreed we didn’t want to let that part of our relationship die and had gotten lazy abt it since both of us could care less most of the time. Although we are not like jack rabbits….things have improved in this regard! Haha
Post # 50
whoops didn’t realise this was 10 months old! Glad you’re going well though 😂
Post # 51
We have sex everyday at minimum, unless one of us is feeling sick or we are worn out. Lol. Fiance usually initiates with neck kisses and tickling but if he doesn’t…I most certainly will! Both of our sex drives are pretty high. I’m happy with the amount. FI’s favorite position is cowgirl, mine is good ol’ missionary. Xoxo
Post # 52
I’m 100% happy but I’m not sure who actually initiates…we just sort of know it’s gonna happen lol. We just got engaged but because of my startup and some commuting I’m only living with him half the week, and we just know if we’re out or something that’s it’s happening when we get home.
I guess I’m the initator when I’ve been drinking, because I usually just declare that he needs to **** the **** out of me RIGHT NOW, which he is always more than happy to do LOL.