(Closed) Let’s vent a little shall we?? <Bridal Party Drama>

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2742 posts
Sugar bee

A bit of drama for me but nothing I can’t handle. Let it go. Don’t complain about your Maid/Matron of Honor anymore. I know you just vented the one time but it seems your friends ran with it. You can tell them to start including your Maid/Matron of Honor but honey, your wedding is almost here so anymore talks might just bring more drama. I’d just let it go.

Post # 4
500 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

One of mine’s dress can’t get over her boobs.  She has had the dress for 6 months now and just figured this out the other day.  The wedding is in 17 days.  yeah. awesome.  AND she can’t even get off work that day.  Told her don’t worry about it, programs are already printed, i’ll just black her out or something. ugh. should.have.eloped.

Post # 5
453 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

My Maid/Matron of Honor came down form Tampa and she planned for all the girls to get together wot plan my bridal shower. Maid/Matron of Honor plans this at my house. I call her the day of, she basically forgot and ditched us for a friend she anted to hang out with. She felt so bad she showed up 2 and 1./2 hours later and bought pizza for everyone. then she said she was broke.

Yesterday she tells me on the phone that feels that BMs are leaving her out of the planning and she’s tried to contact them. I speak to Bridesmaid or Best Man and she tells me that she’s only gotten one text and it was for her change of phone number.

I’m so over this crap. Maid/Matron of Honor is my sister.


Post # 6
2714 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Sorry, that totally sucks. 🙁 I think you just shouldn’t get involved in this one (easier said than done, I know!) If your Maid/Matron of Honor wants to be more involved in the bach. party she should probably reach out to your other BMs.

I’m dealing with a lot of stress regarding my bachelorette party as well. My Maid/Matron of Honor is deadset on going to Vegas for a long weekend and I really just don’t want to, due to a myriad of reasons. She’s really fighting me on this and I’m having a hard time getting her to back down. /sigh

Other than that though my other BMs have been totally fabulous!!

Post # 7
10287 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

We’re about 4 ½ months out and I’m happy to report that I have not experienced a shred of bridal party drama. Like you, my bridesmaids are my three best friends and they’ve all been great. The only issue that we may run into is one of my bridesmaids moving about 15 hours away at the end of June. She and her family don’t have very much money so everyone I talk to seems to think she’s not going to come back for our wedding. I asked her and she promised me that she would be here so I just have to trust that she’ll keep her word. Other than that (which I really don’t consider “drama” at all) everything’s been great. I’m the 3rd of our group of 4 to get married and Fiance and I have been together the longest. My friends have been waiting for my wedding for years and I think they’re all really excited. No jealousy, no judgement, no snarkiness. It’s awesome.

I read about all of the bridal party drama from fellow Bees and it really makes me realize just how incredible my friends are.

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