(Closed) letting my SO read the weddingbee

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
4152 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Oh this is such a sweet story.  I’ve never let SO read my posts before but he has read other things (that are general and don’t realte to us).  I tdefinitely makes me think I should be less “sneaky” about it.

Hope your waiting ends soon, sounds like you’re in the same place after you discussion.

Post # 4
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926 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m glad it turned out well for you, it could’ve made a lesser man panic 😉

I’m not waiting, but Fiance just told me the other day that he stalked out my weddingbee account (this is par for the course with us, and we’re fine with it) for the purposes of… seeing if I had posted anything about his engagement watch, lol.

If it really was to look for which engagement watch I wanted to get him, it’s both super cute and fruitless.  If it was to just be nosy, it’s ok, but I’d rather he not read it regularly.  Not that I have anything to hide, it’s just that this is a safe, girly place to obsess, vent, etc., and I’d like to keep it that way. 

Post # 5
Hostess
11167 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

I am glad that the Bee opend up communication. Here’s hoping for progress!

My Fiance reads over my shoulder at times and teases me a bit. Oh well, he is a geek and posts on Reddit all the time. We have ring porn they have….well porn, and puppies and satirical comments etc. What is the difference?

….we have puppies too.

Post # 6
Member
701 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

that was my post (about from the guys perspective) care to share either here or there what information you got out of him? 

Post # 7
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1430 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

My SO read a post that I wrote on theknot.com, about how I was kinda hoping he’d propose on Christmas. Anyway, he read it, sighed, and we had a little discussion on how he felt the timing would’ve been off then but how he had thought of doing it then. Honestly that made me happy because I knew we were still moving in the right direction and not at a standstill.

Post # 8
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220 posts
Helper bee

Interesting!  Sounds like it opened up some good communication between the two of you.  Having read what a lot of us on the waiting board are going through, is he willing to share a guy’s perspective on the pre-proposal stage of a relationship?

Post # 9
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3968 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Wow, I don’t think that would have been a good idea for me hahaha!

Post # 10
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1133 posts
Bumble bee

Haha wow, I think I probably wouldn’t want my SO to read my posts and comments. ONE: I don’t want him to know how obsessively crazy I am about every single anxiety ridden detail. TWO: While he knows that I want him to propose yesterday, I don’t go into depth with all of the crazy comments that I make on here to him. I don’t want him to feel pressure. I guess you could say I take my “frustration” if you could call it that, out on The Bee!! :-O love u ladies

Post # 11
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4693 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

My SO knows all about WB and he knows who I am on here, but I have idea if he’s ever read my posts!

Post # 12
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7609 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

That’s great, I’m glad he knows more about how you’re feeling!

I definitely would not want my Fiance on here….or anyone I know in real life….haha.

Post # 13
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1110 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

AHH! There’s husbands on the bee… everyone on your best behavior!

Post # 14
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3220 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I try to restrain myself posting sometimes and go through phases where I don’t post at all because I wonder what my friends/SO would think if they found my account.  I definitely don’t post too much personal venting though I do post some times when I get excited about little things (like how we’re going on vacation this weekend woo!)– I wouldn’t want to have vents out there in the world for anyone to see. 

Post # 15
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926 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Imaginary *like* for Moja Milosc!  

Post # 16
Member
220 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I just let my guy read mine 3-4 days ago. My venting hurt his feelings a little but, but then I think he saw how much I was struggling with the whole waiting thing. He has said he won’t read them again because he understands that I need to vent about it somewhere. He reassured me that it’s coming very soon. And I think he’s finally made a decision about what ring he likes…. I have seriously given him a million ideas, and thought we had it picked out aldready. Lol!

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