LIFESAVER baby tip/gifts for new mom *not me*

posted 2 years ago in Babies
Post # 2
6834 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

Not a new mom yet (will be soon though!), but one of the big things other parents have told me about is to have a bunch of just plain white onesies. You’ll be amazed at how often there’s a diaper leakage or a blowout or whatever and you have to change their clothes. Having a bunch of plain onesies makes it easier.

Post # 3
1663 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I have 2 kids, one of the things I used most was pre fold cloth diapers as burp cloths. The actual burp cloths don’t absorb anything, but a pack or two of the pre fold cloth diapers are amazing!
Also, both of my kids loved Little Einstein cds.

Post # 4
726 posts
Busy bee

When my son was a baby I wanted to kiss the inventor of the automatic rocking swings 😁

Post # 5
214 posts
Helper bee

Honestly–gift cards for take out would be amazing.  I received a few when each of my kids was born–and it was truly the best gift.  Or do some make ahead meals that can be frozen and then just thrown in the oven or a crockpot.  

Post # 6
1022 posts
Bumble bee

What we have bought more of since our baby was born: diapers, wipes, and burp cloths. I’m sure they would appreciate any of these!!

“Nice to have” gifts for baby – books, the large swaddle blankets from Aden & Anais or Little Unicorn (pricey but can use them forever & for multiple uses) and clothes in 3-6 month or bigger sizes….just try to stay seasonally relevant for clothing. Ie, a Christmas baby won’t need fleece sleepers in 6 month size.


“Nice to have” gifts for parents – takeout / delivery gift cards, a basket of healthy easy to eat snacks (string cheese, nuts, dried  apricots, protein bars).  A wonderful gift if you live close by would be to bring dinner every Sunday night for the first month, something that reheats so they can eat the leftovers for a few days.  There is no time to cook with a newborn!!

Post # 7
2089 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Nosefrida Snotsucker and Hydrasense nasal spray!  You never know when you’ll need it but it’s a lifesaver to have on hand.  Noone is happy when baby is stuffed up.

Post # 8
776 posts
Busy bee

I completely second the PP and would say meals and/or other helpful stuff that will make their lives easier once baby comes. Gift cards to takeout places nearby would be awesome and so would a couple of frozen meals they can pop out of the freezer so they don’t have to cook. I’m not sure how close you two are, or if she already has one or even if she’d want one, but one cleaning from a cleaning service would be nice if you know her well enough for that. I’m not a mom yet (due in January) but my husband went through a major surgery this summer and the stuff that helped the most was getting stuff off of our plate that we had to do like mowing, cooking, dishes, laundry, etc.

Post # 9
1128 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Diapers, extra washcloths, DEF a nose frida. But the food is the absolute best thing. I was SO grateful for anyone that brought food. I had a lovely friend that brought homemade muffins, bean salad, and fruit salad. I remembered that far more than any gift.

Post # 10
8968 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Fall_In_Love22 :  What clipclop1023 : said. All the burp cloths all the time. Pre-fold cloth diapers are the best, but mass quantities regardless. And maybe some Dreft.

ETA: Ask if they got enough washcloths too. Somehow my daughter ended up with no baby washcloths. 6 adorable hooded towels but no washcloths.


Post # 11
9290 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

we have one of those thermometers but seriously just sticking your elbow (hands sometimes aren’t sensitive enough) to test the water is enough.

food and snacks for mama, or hire a cleaning person to come are probably the best gifts you can give.


i was a minimal mama and didn’t want a million things.  if she got everything she wants at her shower, i’m sure she’s taken care of.


Post # 13
3007 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

For me, Halo swaddles, footie pajamas that zip or snap down the front because putting things over her delicate little head freaked me out, Fisher Price swing, nursery glider, all the diapers ever, and breast pumping bra (though you can’t really gift that), were my must-have items. 


Post # 14
1867 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I loved getting things that were handmade and/or personalized with my baby’s name.  My best gift from my mom was a portrait membership program with our wedding photographer that got us multiple photo sessions and a photo album from baby’s first year.  Less expensive but equally awesome might be a gift card to shutterfly or similar photo gift website. 

My Mother-In-Law made us weeks worth of freezer meals and that was also the best thing ever.  For months, if we didn’t want to make dinner, we could just pick something out of our huge selection of tasty things she made for us.  I also loved shopping for baby things so I loved getting gift cards to baby stores.

We watched a lot of tv in the first few weeks while feeding baby/snuggling/putting baby to sleep/pumping, so seasons of tv shows would also make great gifts.  I watched all the harry potter movies, all of That 70s show, and all of How i met your mother during baby’s first months.

Other items I loved were halo sleepsacks, my baby book, those little “month” photo stickers, and even a little handheld fan my mom gave me shaped like a popsicle that I used to dry off my babys bottom when she kept getting diaper rash at a couple weeks old!  Seriously you never know what will be useful!

Post # 15
5 posts
  • Wedding: January 2015

This isn’t for baby but after I had my last baby my mom got me magazines for me to read. I loved having sweets to snack on when baby blues kicked in.  My mom also bought me a massage that I could get at any time.  It was lovely to get some me time after baby.

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