(Closed) Lights on or off?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Busy bee

Mostly the light is on. We do alternate between on and off though. The only time we HAD to make sure the lights were out was when we were staying at a resort that had curtains that left some of.the window uncovered, so we had to make sure the lights were out to make sure no one could peak in. Though now that I think.about it, the windows were probably the tinted kind that people couldn’t see into no matter what.

I think the best lighting is dim, though, like a dark room with lit candles, or if you have a light dimmer. Mostly though, lights are on, Fiance wants to see.my body and I want to see what I’m doing. Time of day doesn’t matter at all about lighting.

  • This reply was modified 5 years ago by  PBeeWriter.
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

We never notice. Doesn’t matter if lights are on or off, we do it when we want to. 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

Lights OFF! I love him, but he’s not as young and fit as he used to be.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

Lights on.. always on. If they’re not on he will turn them on. Sometimes I wish they were out because I feel less self conscious especially when I’m on top, but he really seems to prefer lights on.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

Lights off, but lamps and candles on!!

Post # 8
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Busy bee

Just side lamps on.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Bedroom light off, hallway light (or candles) on. The ceiling light in our room is directly over the bed and shines right into the eyes of whoever is on bottom. We like enough light to see each other, but don’t actually care either way.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Nashville, TN

Lights off with one candle going

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Lights off. Conan O’Brien on.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

During the day it doesn’t matter but we generally like it dimmer so either closet light or candles (I love candles!). I think my Fiance may have a Pavlov’s dog like reaction to candles at any time now though haha

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2019

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yupmarried:  I really hope that’s a terrible sarcastic joke and nothing more.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - Walnut Hill Bed & Breakfast

Off because it’s too bright for whoever is on the bottom to be looking up at it. 

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2019

We switch it up completely, and I’ve no idea which we do more of. I love both though. You rely on different senses. It’s great to suddenly feel a hand somewhere cheeky when you didn’t see it coming, but an eyeful of sex with your partner is very hot too.

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