Post # 62
Lights were on our first time and have pretty much always been on since. He had also seen me naked before our first time too so I guess there was no shyness there. It makes it easier to see and know what is going on or about to change!
Post # 63
Gotta have some light, complete dark would be weird for me, but at the same time I wouldn’t want a bright spotlight on either. Somewhere in between is best. Usually we turn the lights off and have the bathroom light on with the door open with some light coming in through the blinds. After the first couple times it’s no big deal.