(Closed) Lingerie shower thank you notes

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
735 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Write a heartfelt thank you note to each hostess. That will mean so much more than a template based one. You are obviously really excited and thankful about how thoughtful these gals were. You realize that they planned an awful lot and you know that they spent some money… ( no need to mention the money directly, though you can mention that you really liked the favors and the food).

As long as you write the truth the thank you note will be great. 🙂

Your hostess threw the party for you because they wanted to, you aren’t required to buy them a gift, but it is customary to give a gift to you Bridesmaid or Best Man & Maid/Matron of Honor at your rehearsal dinner to thank them for all their help. If you want to do more for these great friends you could always take them to brunch. it’s not WRONG to get someone a gift for being a great friend – but it can sometimes seem as though you think they’re only doing nice things for you so they’ll get a gift in return. Accept the generosity with a sincere “thank you” and know you have awesome people in your life.  🙂

Post # 4
184 posts
Blushing bee

Yes, get a gift for both hostesses.  Try bath & body works or a gift card for a mani/pedi, something like that with a nice card. 


Thank you notes should be individual to the person and the gift.  It takes about 90 seconds or less to write one thank you note, including addressing it.

I’ll tell you what I told my daughter…..write 3 sentences.  No more than four sentences.  .

Thank them for coming to the shower.

Tell them how much you love the gift.  

Thank them for being your friend and how much they mean to you or that you hope to see them soon, blah blah blah.

Love _______

I also advised my daughter to write 10-15 thank you notes every evening until she was done.  That way it is not the impossible task it seems especially if you had a large tea or shower.

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