(Closed) Little bit of a weird situation…..help?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should I let my step-mom invite my distant relatives?
    Yes : (1 votes)
    5 %
    No : (19 votes)
    90 %
    Make her say "no gifts" on the invitations : (1 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 2
    1407 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    Only people who are invited to the wedding should be invited to the shower – so make sure she knows who is on the guest list and who isn’t and invites to the shower accordingly.

    Post # 3
    2512 posts
    Sugar bee

    twinter91:  Tell her people who are not invited to the wedding shall not be invited to the shower. End of discussion.

    Your step-mom can take you out to dinner or have a small shower with a few ladies who are invited to the wedding if she wants to.

    Post # 4
    1671 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2014 - Church

    twinter91:  Tell her something along the lines of you are honoured that she is going to throw you a shower and love that she wants to make it into a big event, but that you do not feel that it is appropriate that someone who is not invited to the wedding is invited to the shower and that you need her to stick to the guest list.

    Post # 5
    13251 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    It’s incredibly rude to invite people to a shower and not invite them to the wedding.  If she invites them, you’d best figure out how to accomodate them at your wedding.

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