- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
I hate her, I hate her, I hate her, and my SO doesn’t even like her that much.
My SO’s cousin is a nightmare, she’s so jealous and needy it friggen drives me CRAZY.
1. To celebrate our engagement/his Ph.D graduation, we went out for dinner. It was Me, my SO, FIL, his two cousin’s Monica and Nadia, and Monica’s fiance (whom I love dearly) I love everyone dearly, except for Nadia (Monica is my MOH) anyways, Mon and Nadia were talking about something (I was at the other end of the table) so I don’t know what they were talking about, but then Monica came over and sat beside me and was asking me about my ring and stuff. Then Nadia was like “Hey, what about me? You were just talking to me and then leave.” Even though their conversation was over.
2. Every question she ask you, its only so she can talk about herself. She only ever talks about herself and actually gets annoyed if you talk about something eles. At that dinner, she asked if I was a good cook, Monica replied that I was (cause we have dinner parties sometimes – that Nadia isn’t invited to) and then Nadia was like “Oh, I’m really good too, and went on for 20 minutes of how good at cooking she was.”
3. I posted a picture of me and Monica on my facebook, 20 minutes later Monica called me and told me that Nadia had called her and asked why we were hanging out and why she wasn’t invited. She’s never invited because she always always need to be out doing something, she can’t stay home. Monica has 2 babies so we just relax and hang around her house, also, Nadia doesn’t have a car so she expects everyone to pick her up.
4. She told me she was annoyed that I went wedding dress shopping with Monica, and didn’t invite her. SHE WAS IN MEXICO WITH HER BOYFRIEND, STUPID.
Don’t get all judgemental, if you knew her, you’d hate her too.
Now down to the real rant, when we moved to Switzerland, we were looking for someone to rent out our condo, we could get $1,700 for our one bedroom, but she was interested and offered us 1,400 a month. We thought that was too low, and so my SO said he could do $1,500. She said it was too high and my SO said, “Okay, well I can’t go below that.” About 2 weeks later she texted him and said “Hey so I cancelled my gym membership so I can afford $1,500 now” Fine. Good job. Our plane left December 6th, she was suppose to move in January 1st, She asked if she could move in early. (she has a lease at her apartment building because they found someone to replace her, turns out it fell through and she couldn’t move in till Feb 1st. – But we were under the impression she would still pay January rent, just not Decembers) My SO agreed because he didn’t really care, but made it clear to her she would have to clean up a bit breaking (Our shipping company got the dates wrong and we had to have everything packed and on the shippment truck and fly out the very next day) we didn’t have time to throw out of matress and I think 2 garbage bags. She said okay, and then we got an email from her saying how mad she was that the place still had stuff in it and that we would never do that to another renter, even after giving her a month free. AND THEN HAD THE BALLS TO TELL US THAT SHE CAN’T AFFORD TO PAY FOR JANUARY RENT IN TWO PLACES SO IF IT WAS OKAY TO STAY FREE. After giving my SO shit. I was sooo fucking annoyed.
Anyways, I’m worried she’s coming to our wedding, but I’ll be even more pissed if she can afford to come to our wedding because she couldn’t afford anything before (the $1500 or a months rent, and she couldn’t even pay first and last).
Shes such a free loader.