(Closed) Livid, LIVID about FMIL.

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Omg, that’s one of the most insane things I’ve her out of a FMIL’s mouth!  Is she normally this… well, crazy? 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Um. Wow. I have no words.

So…it’s a bad thing Fiance didn’t knock you up? Yeesh.

 

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

WOW…… Um 25 is still REALLY young to start having kids. 

 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

#1 We are date twins! YEAH! Laughing

#2 Your Future Mother-In-Law is bat shit crazy. 25 isn’t old and just because you weren’t a teen mom (no offense to ANY teen mothers out there!) doesn’t mean you can’t/won’t have children in the future (unless you and Fiance have decided not to have kids). Was she drunk? Jeez that was SO rude and uncalled for!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

What in the hell. Where exactly is your relationship with your Future Mother-In-Law supposed to go from here?!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Wow.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Holy crap.  25 is, by no means, “too old to have children”!  I have no advice to offer you, but I just wanted to let you know that she is totally and completely wrong.

Was she drunk or something when she called your FI?

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Ok, I get that her values are different, but I can’t believe she was sooooo vocal about it.  And not in a tactful way at all.  I wouldn’t say anything to her.  What good could come out of it?  She’s obviously not going to understand.  And luckily, science and biology are not on her side… you can have like 10 kids starting now if you really wanted to, jeesh 🙁

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Indiana Memorial Union

All you can do is laugh at that kind of crazy. There’s no rationalizing with a person who thinks it’s a virtue to have children as a teenager or that 25 is too old. So just laugh at her. She’s totally nuts.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Are you serious? I would have been so beyond livid! 

I am so sorry his family is treating you like that! Either way they will have to get over all of it since he LOVES YOU. My Grama made me promise when I was 5 to wait to have kids til I was 25 lol! 

You’ve got your man and you live in different states! lol

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I advocate mentally punching her in the face.  Clearly doing it in real life is wrong. But I’ll start you off. *mental kapow!*

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

That is the craziest thing I have ever heard. You could wait ten years before you have kids if you wanted to! 

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