Post # 1
My fiance and I are planning to have a marraige this coming april but he said that after our wedding he still sleep in their house because he was still not comfortable with my parents. As a women i have also a price and dont want to sleep at their house. But I want to be with him for that was our first night as couple.And I was afraid to start our new life in living separately.
Does its okey? Does it is a right thing to do as newly wed? Does its really have a “bad luck”? What do you thing?
Post # 3
@xtinita525: How old are you? So yall both live with your parents? And will continue to do so after you are married??? I’m confused.
Post # 4
I’m.. confused. You’ll be married and living with your parents?
Post # 5
@xtinita525: Oh dear! Why get married if you’re going to live with your parents?
Post # 6
Marking. Because I’m thoroughly confused and want to hear a response.
Post # 7
@Paiger8: “Marking. Because I’m thoroughly confused and want to hear a response.“
Post # 8
Yeah… I’m confused too. Why can’t you get your own place? Or for at least the night after your wedding, a hotel room? Why is there not some kind of long-term living plan in place if you are getting married in only two months?
Post # 10
I’m also wondering this… what are your plans for moving in together in your own place?
Post # 11
Maybe it’s a cultural thing?
Post # 12
@kmaemu: This is what I am thinking.
@xtinita525: Where do you guys live? Most of us probably feel like if you’re getting married, you should be living together without your parents…because that’s what most people do. But I understand that in some cultures the woman moves in with the mans family. Why did you agree to marry him if you don’t want to do this? This is something you two should have discussed some time before your wedding. I think you need to talk to him.
Post # 16
I know you are confused and so do I .. to understand more I will share you our story.. My boyfriend works abroad and he want me to follow him, he want me to stay with him but I suggest if that’s what his plan we should have a marriage here in our country. So he agree but he only have 2 weeks to stay here. Now after our wedding he said that He was still shy to my parents so she say that we have to stay with his parents.. but the problem is i dont want to go with his parents…is it bad lock to live separately after our wedding..its just only temporary until we can live the country..
But Thanks guys for your comments and suggestion.
We should fixed things right before that day… 🙂