(Closed) Living with a richer, skinnier, prettier girl

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
2093 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@MissFireFlower:  When anyone has been rude to me in that way I’ve told them to be careful when walking outside, because someone might just drop a house on them.


Honey, no one is perfect. We all take a crap. And the last time I checked, crap, by defintion is something nobody wants. We all have it in us. So while on the outside, she might have a lot of physical characteristics others find appealing, there is some crap in her. Remember that.

Post # 33
1462 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

It’s the girls who seem to have it all who are the most insecure.  Just saying.  And it’s obviously true based on her catty digs.  Ignore her!

Post # 34
11416 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

I don’t want to be insensitive but you are really gorgeous. You might not be seeing things the way they are. You say she’s prettier, nope. Not possible.

Thinner doesn’t equal prettier, and I say that as a skinny person. 

I would tell her that you don’t like the way she is speaking to you. That simple, with no explanation. ” I don’t like the way you are speaking to me.” repeat as needed. And walk away if she doesn’t stop. 

Post # 35
3256 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@MissFireFlower:  She will have a series of failed relationships with emotionally/mentally weak men who tolerate her crap because she’s pretty.  Watch and laugh.  Watch and laugh.

Post # 36
205 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Sounds like she’s an unhappy or insecure person deep down. Usually people who are happy and secure do not feel the need to put people down. Just remember that everytime she says something nasty… hopefully that will make it a bit easier to deal with.

Post # 37
231 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Tell her no matter how pretty she may be, her shit still stinks just like everyone elses.

Post # 38
301 posts
Helper bee

Tell her that if you had as bad an attitude as her, you’d count yourself lucky you didn’t get slapped! Just kidding. I’m very happy around your height and weight so I don’t know how much “improvement” you or she think you need. No one appreciates being told how to live their life, and she doesn’t have any right to talk down to you. It sounds like she needs to feel good about herself by putting you down. Show her you can’t bully you with a good dose of self love. Respond to her fake nice criticism by saying something like “Good thing you’re not me” or “I think I look great, thanks.” She will probably stop it once it’s not working anymore.

Post # 40
3724 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@MissFireFlower:  Dude. I’m 5’10” and 175lbs is my goal weight. Seriously! Sounds like you need to snap the hell out of it, see how perfect you are and tell that bitch to STFU. If that doesn’t work, a good ol’ chop to the neck/larynx always works wonders in my opinion.

Post # 41
3419 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

I feel like I know you from our waiting days and I am so surprised you didn’t out-right smack her. I don’t know you to take any shit.

Post # 42
3460 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

“I’ve focused on improving my personality instead.”

Post # 43
868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@MissFireFlower:  this girl sounds awful, not tactful, and mean. and that will definitely come back to bite her in the butt one day. please remember that what she is saying is WRONG. i’m sure skinny bitches made fun of the first dude who said the earth was round, and they were also wrong.

Post # 44
44 posts

I teach 7 and 8 year olds and although the vocabulary isn’t the same, she reminds me of them! I mean really, she is a bully. I personally would want to smack her and give it right back but I know deep down that it is not good. As hard as it is, you need to focus on the fact that she is the way she is because she is NOT happy with herself. She is trying to bring you down because she feels so low. Remind yourself that karma will get her and she obviously has issues. Try to put a smile on your face, focus on you, and be happy! You not only are beautiful, you have the personality aspect which she is missing. 

Post # 45
3772 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@MissFireFlower:  “… and if I were your size, I’d be cranky too. Eat a cheeseburger.”

Post # 46
2211 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I can’t believe she would say that to you!  So short-sighted, seeing as you’re married to her brother and she’s going to have you in her life for a very long time.  She definitely has some insecurities that seem to be causing her to act like a total bitch.

You are gorgeous, and definitely not in need of a lifestyle change, as she so impolitely has indicated.  Women of any size can be beautiful; in addition, you’re smaller than the average dress size for American women!

I’m also around a size 10 right now, but I’m only 5’4″.  I don’t consider myself overweight in any way (though, I do make terrible food choices…LOL, but that’s a different story), and neither should you.

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