Long distance – he’s not sure he’ll move

posted 2 weeks ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 31
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2505 posts
Sugar bee

Yeah sorry bee. I wouldnt be sticking around any longer. The fact that he moved away 2 years in with no regard for the relationship and continued to give you vague “it’ll happen” responses when asked about your future plans… he knows you wont move there without an engagement and refuses to move to you. Honestly, what other choices do you have? I really don’t think this man will propose any time soon…. I’d buy the house, break up and start your life!

Post # 32
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957 posts
Busy bee

Sounds like it’s make or break time bee. One of you has to move. xo

Post # 33
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1486 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

Time to have a serious talk about a timeline for engsgement, wedding, living together. If he’s cagey about it, then there’s your answer. 

Post # 34
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583 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2019

Based on his behavior it doesn’t sound like getting married to you and starting a life together is a priority.

Post # 36
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961 posts
Busy bee

dromy2 :  Sounds like a good plan, Bee.  Make sure you don’t allow any wishy-washiness.  Get solid answers.  If you must, tell him clearly that you are making plans for the future, and he needs to either get on board and be a part of that, or let you move on with your life.  

To be honest, I had to have the “man up or move on” conversation with an ex once.  He moved on.  Best thing that’s ever happened to me.  So glad I stood my ground and made him choose.  

Post # 37
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22 posts
Newbee

No more time for wishy washy bee, or else another couple of years will drift by in no mans land..

Time for one of you to $h!t or get off the pot…so to speak..

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