(Closed) Long family drama question

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

No, and I don’t get this.  Not being invited to someone’s wedding isn’t a tragedy and if the two of you have a history of not getting along, or she has a history of causing drama, I can’t imagine anyone is really that shocked that she’s not welcome. 

If you really think she can come and behave herself, you can relent if you’re comfortable with that.  If not, stick to your guns.  If your other relatives choose not to attend because she’s not invited, it is, as you said, their choice. 

Post # 4
398 posts
Helper bee

This isn’t about her and her feelings.  It’s about you getting married and celebrating that day.  It’s your choice who you want to celebrate that day with.

I wouldn’t invite her.  You don’t get along with her. Also,  just because she’s family does not mean she should be invited.     Your other family members should respect that choice.


Best of luck.

Post # 5
548 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

No way in hell would I invite her.  Sorry…I’m sick of people’s drama (in my own life that is lol)…I say don’t do it.

Post # 6
3709 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

“Would you go to a wedding if you knew that you had originally not been on the guest list and your family begged for you to be allowed to go?”

Nope…I sure wouldn’t. I wouldn’t have my family calling around trying to “score” me an invite either. Why does your cousin even WANT to go? So that she can say she was there? I mean I am assuming that you guys haven’t been getting along for a while so why would she even think she would be invited in the first place?

Post # 7
1253 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I wouldn’t invite her either!! I don’t think you should have to invite ppl just because you are related to them. If I wasn’t invited to a relative’s wedding, and then my mom begged them to let me come, and I got an invitation, I don’t think I would go. Two of my cousins got married, and I wasn’t at either of their weddings and I didn’t take offense to it. You have obvious reasons why you don’t want her there and it’s YOUR day!

Post # 8
2385 posts
Buzzing bee

Don’t do it. It’s not worth it. My only worry (in that case) is do you think this cousin is vindictive and henious enough to try wedding crashing? (sorrym, I may be being a bit paranoid)

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