(Closed) LONG gripe: his BM n BM’s wife DRAMA!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I think if she doesnt want to come to the wedding or they are having issues, I would just let it go. I wouldnt get upset about it. SOme people came to my wedding but I’m not able to attend theirs due to the timing, money etc. Sometimes there is more to the situation than you are being told. I really wouldnt focus on being upset because this one woman doesnt want to come to the wedding.

Post # 5
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635 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

one of our groomsmen is like yall’s bm. totally inappropriate with me, and all females. i’m pairing him with my ballsy bridesmaid so she can knock him down a few notches if he misbehaves. as for the bachelor party, have u told your fi you don’t like it because since he is using it as a break from reality, he’ll be more likely to do things your future husband shouldn’t be involved in? personally, if my pain in the ass did this, i know he’d cheat on his so. i would NOT want my fi involved in that in any way, shape, or form. and i know he wouldn’t either, he just wouldn’t think about it ahead of time. you need to find out what your Fiance says about it. also, you need to trust your fi if you plan to marry him. yes, the bm is being a jerk, but your fi, if he’s a man worthy of marriage, should be trusted with the douche bag he claims is his friend.

Post # 6
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3220 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

which will cost my Fiance another 200 for him a day pass

No.  Your Fiance should not be paying for any of these ideas that the Bridesmaid or Best Man comes up with or pay extra money because someone else’s marriage is on the rocks.  He needs to stand his ground on all of this– no weekend, no extra money.  It’s his wedding, not the BM’s time to fool around or waste everyone else’s money.

Post # 8
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1735 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Is it not GM?  I keep reading Bridesmaid or Best Man and thinking bridesmaid.

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Honestly, I think the bigger issue in the whole situtation is the fact that he’s sexually unappropriate with you. 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

“Honestly, I think the bigger issue in the whole situtation is the fact that he’s sexually unappropriate with you. “

Yeah.  Does your fiancé know about this?  I know for a fact my husband would no longer be friends with someone who touched me inappropriately.  There’s no excuse for that.

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